You're probably wondering about my username Coxswain! Coxswain is a term used to describe a person who usually steers a ship and has charge of its crew. I was given this nickname by my boss in reference to my job.

About me: I'm very simplistic and complex at the same time. I'm not looking for anyone who is here to play games or cause drama in my more or less stress free life. I have been told that my best qualities are my humbleness and honesty and I am looking for a woman who will appreciate that.

I enjoy a lot of outdoor activities including golf and playing softball. I'm also open to trying new things so if you have a hobby, don't assume that I won't be interested -- ask me, I'll probably give it a try.

I'm not sure what this site might bring, but I'm open to most all responces. I look forward to hearing from you.

A casual meeting for coffee or drinks to see if the interest is there for both of us. If so, then plans can be made for a "real" date at a later time.