Hello....I see myself as a regular guy but I'm not like anyone else. Don't know if that makes sense but so what....I'm trying this online dating now and that hasn't made much sense.....till now. I'm happy go lucky, easy going.....no wild mood swings....just wild tennis swings...lol. I play about twice a week and I love it. Have a good sense of humor that borderlines on silly/geeky sometimes. Then again....GEEK IS SEXY. I like to eat out. (I'm not a good cook) My favorites are Italian, Mexican, Oriental....I seem to be attracted to women that are unique and different.....I am NOT attracted to women that are overly dependent or looking for someone to make them happy. I believe happiness comes from within. I am financially comfortable....(no kids or alimony...lol)Have had a number of good relationships mixed in with a couple of not-so-good ones. Never really met the right lady for me but have had a lot of good times on the way. But who knows....life is predictably unpredictable. Attraction and chemistry is important to me. Not looking for a model, just someone in decent shape who is fairly active and not a couch potato. I'm a little slow to pounce these days....I kinda like to get to know someone first and develop a trust and rapport. If you're looking for a possesive boyfriend who will call you every hour or so of the day (red flag)....I am not him. To me, that kind of behavior is not driven by love but by insecurity. Anyway....thanks for taking the time to read this....I hope you're still awake....lol.....cheers

Nothing too fancy the first meeting....maybe meet for coffee in a nice non-chain coffee house with nice furniture that is comfortable and not too noisy. A nice atmosphere that would be conducive to good conversation. Then maybe later or the next time....a nice drive along the ocean or near the river. It can be a nice way to get to know one another.