****Some letters I send, say "sent message", but then it doesn't get sent. If you see that I've viewed your profile (or keep viewing your profile), I HAVE sent you a message, so if you didn't get it, and you're at all interested, send me a letter please. ****

****The I.M.'s here don't always work so send POF mail please****

**** Food for thought ladies; It's already hard enough to find someone in life right? When you place limits like age, income, or the setting to ignore people here ->("Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex") you're limiting without cause. Have you considered, that maybe, someone said hello to us and we may simply have said hello in return and because we were nice, now we can't write to you? Does that seem fair? You need to uncheck that box because the more you limit meeting people, the more you'll be alone. Get to know someone 1st, don't you want us to know you before forming an opinion about you?
Just something to think about. ****

PLEASE BE IN OR COMING TO HOUSTON.......

OK,As for me;
I'm pretty laid back but I do say what's on my mind. Let's just talk, see where it goes, and try to enjoy it along the way.

Sure I'd like to find my true soul mate, but I'm not one to sit around doing nothing waiting on her to find me or want me. I want to meet someone that wants me as much as I want them, OR MORESO.

Aren't you tired of online games & BS? It's pretty bad when a person can't keep their word. To me, when you don't keep your word it speaks volumes about your character. So remember, people who can't keep your word, should keep their mouth closed.

A 1st DATE isn''t the 1st meeting.

1st meeting should be a cup of coffee, coke, walk, sit, mainly talk to see if there's any spark or mutual interests and take it from there. Take it where?? Wherever we want.

1st actual date - Who knows, some place we can enjoy, & really get to know one another more.
The typical date isn't really good for dating. Think about it,
Dinner, dancing, movies----
Don't talk with food in your mouth, it's impolite and gross,
Don't talk in a movie it's not polite either,
you can't hear on a dance floor, and who wants to smell cigarette smoke anyway.

Dating in the beginning is to get to know the person better. I want to get to know you, not the business I went to visit with you, there's plenty of time for that latter.