I am emotionally healthy, fit, tall, blue-eyed, have a good moral character (kind, honest, unselfish, polite, monogomous and slow to become involved). I'm fit enough that I used to be a lifeguard, and smart enough to attend two Ivy League schools. I am very well-read, educated at Harvard, viewed as wealthy but not materialistic, sweet, funny, and cultured. I have a very high IQ, am very articulate and analytical, but am in touch with both parts of my brain (maybe instead of Mars or Venus, I am a true earthling).

The first date is about the connection between us, not where we go; I do different things depending on that person's interests and likes. Food, theater, dance, hike, concert etc.