Where do I start? This is going to be tough,I am an open and completely honest man, sometimes that has cut relationships short, but why play games, I am who I am and will not lie just to get a date, I am lonely but not desperate. I am looking for a monogamous long term relationship, possibly leading to but not necessarily marraige. I do not rule out marraige, if I find the right lady. I am cofortable in jeans or a suit, I am easy going, don't usually hold a grudge, a person would have to do something pretty bad for me to do that. I am a hugger and a hand holder. I have been told I am a great listener too Are you comfortable with yourself to send a pic?

Thre ideal first date would be dinner at a quiet restraunt where we could talk and get to know each other over dinner and coffee/drinks. After dinner if we click, a nice walk, weather permitting or dancing, or even a movie what ever is mutually agreed upon.