Came to realize that I have what most people dream about - my own home, financial independence, my health, my family and my happiness. What more could I want?

And think about it...what are the chances of meeting someone on here that you are going to be compatable with for the rest of your life??? About a million to one! So...I bought a lottery ticket instead. I figure, if I win, I can hire a pool boy and a gardener and a....OK! ....you get the idea. :) :)

Update: To those that feel I have somehow offended them with my profile: I apologize. I'm very sorry if what I have decided for myself and say on my profile is not what you wish to read. It is not my intent to be offensive to your ideals. Rather, I just wish to live my life as I see fit.... Now! Instead of mailing me a rant....pls....move along (you can do it..go on..scoot!)....take a deep breath....you'll be ok.

Trying to quit smoking - GAWD! It ain't easy!!!!

Honestly? Just a normal, down to earth person - what you see is who I am. I do enjoy the forums and if you just wish to talk to someone with no pressure on you for being SUPERMAN.. go ahead...send me a msg.

Once upon a time.... DATE??? What the hell is a 'DATE"? Does anyone do that anymore? I still do enjoy meeting others for a coffee (I like to pay for my own - just a 'thing' I have) and a good conversation - but that is as far as it goes.

older than 50
Live in Canada
Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex.
Must not be looking for Other Relationship
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter
Must not do drugs
Must not be married