I am a guy whom's mother thinks is the greatest

To be honest, i used to be a player, but have grown out of that. Now, I hate to see people come and go in my life.

I'm tired of going to bars, getting hammerheaded (username), and then wondering what the name of the girl is your waking up with the next morning .

I was married from the age of 19 to 23 - many moons ago. It wasn't bad, we were just too young and lived in Southern California.

From 23 to about 39, more than 15 years, I've lived like this lifestyle, so I should be tired of it, right!

I know that sounds bad (even thought about deleting it) but it has been reality for me, at least up to about a year or two ago.

Why am I being so honest as to probably cost me a few matches on here?

Because "Honesty is the Best Policy", "You Live and you Learn", and all those old cliche's seem to be coming true in my life here lately!

Especially the one that goes "Better to have Learned Late in Life, than Never to have Learned at All". I don't know if that one already existed or if I just made it up for my life, but I believe it's just as true as the others.

What I get asked the most is "what are the things you're looking for in a girl".

Really, the answer is, I don't know yet, but I know I'll know, when I find "her".

For more on little ol' (not old - lol) see m y s pace, just add my username here after the www dot m ysp ace and the forward slash "/"

Learn how to Polka, go to a Ceramics Class and make Personalized Mugs, or taking my buddies Ben and Sam for a walk!

Later, coffee and a chance to talk.

Anything besides the typical dinner and movie thing! I can barely sit still all the way through a movie and it doesn't let you get to know one another. If I want to date someone, they are more interesting than any movie could be - you know, our real life, right! not someone else's!