If youd like to talk with me better get busy cause I hope Im not on here too long.. ?:)

Just a thought..
"I guess we guess our way thru life. How many times do we really know for sure? I'm just hoping for the best"...Life will throw you so many curve balls...Seduce my mind and you can have my body, Find my soul and I'm yours forever

Im a 51 (actually im 29..started backwards at 40..by the time I reach the fetal position age Ill be in the fetal position..LOL) year old attractive (so im told) 5'7" 185lb guy with a good sence of humor with a lot to give someone special.. I spent 23 years in a marriage that was comfortable and we were good friends. But I call it my "roommate marriage". Work schedules and other commitments lead us down an ever widening gap. I slept the last 10 years on the couch. In my next relationship I need attraction and friendship in a 50/50 ratio. I want to be attracted to the inside as well as the outside of my mate. I want the feeling of a couple and the romance and play that come with it. I want to spoil her but let her be herself. I need and want the "I want to come home feeling" again. She would be attractive, something that sets her out of a croud, independant, and takes pride in how she looks and thinks. Fun loving and willing to try new adventures. I believe that a realtionship is a partnership with fun and laughing as well as getting each other thru the hard times. Good comunication is also a must. If you find something in my profile that sparks an interest, please write to me. I hope we can make a connection. Im a real nice guy wanting and searching to give my heart to my love. Could it be you?..will never know unless we communicate. Dont wait till tomorrow what you can do today...there may never be a tomorrow.... smiles always!!

A first date would be somewhere public and comfortable for both after talking for a period of time and both would feel easy with.