OK, so you’ve been checking out this online dating stuff. You’ve been contacted by guys old enough to be your Father, cheaters wanting a mistress and gotten hundreds of rude suggestive emails and instant messages. By now you’re tired of it, and probably thinking "why bother when most men are out for their own personal gain and sexual gratification". Well duh!!...of course they are, after all, it’s the American way isn’t it? Please don’t think me Un-American, just because I'm respectful, honest, faithful and looking for more then just a one night stand. I just don’t have time for those childish games anymore, and I’m sure you don’t either.

Ultimately I want someone to share my life with, someone to share in my triumphs and pick me up when I'm feeling down. I want someone who can inspire me musically, artistically and romantically. I'm looking for my best friend, lover, and soul mate. Someone to enjoy the time we have on this earth with, growing old together laughing about all the crazy things that happened along the way. I'm looking for someone who wants a guy that’s fun to be with who will be that same person for them.

The ideal match for me would be someone with a good sense of humor and an upbeat personality. Sexy eyes, a pretty smile, and a nice healthy figure will go a long way in the attraction department too. Reality check time you say? This guy’s nuts, he’s looking for a “Barbie Doll”? NO, not at all… I'm not as picky as all that may sound, I’m just selective and know what I’m attracted to. I don’t believe anyone is truly perfect, I know I’m sure not. It's all about balance. Even the hottest super models require photo airbrushing. I’m keeping it real & would just like to find someone that makes me happy, that i can make happy in return. Love isn't finding the perfect person, it’s seeing an imperfect person perfectly…

I’m both an artist and musician. I've been playing guitar for 30 years and started playing bass guitar this past summer. Some of my best work comes from pure inspiration. I’ve found that beauty inspires me the most, the beauty of nature at sunrise or sunset, a thunderstorm, or the magic feeling you get when you’re in love. I hope to find that inspiration in the eyes of a beautiful woman who will get me off this site for good. Could that be you?
I'm just an easy going laid back guy with a great sense of humor that some say is very quick witted and maybe even a little bit off the wall at times. Life is way too short to let the little things get me down for long and I always try to keep a smile on my face, with a positive attitude no matter what cards life deals out. If you want to know more about me, just ask, I just might give you a straight answer.

I may not be a rich fish or even the best catch out there, but I'm a keeper. I can promise it will be fun if nothing else, and well worth the time spent getting to know me. Let's talk, have a few laughs and get to know one another, you'll be glad you did. If a relationship develops, that’s great, if not, at least we've both made a new friend… We both win.
Happy fishing

PS: Please have at least one photo that looks like you do today. No High School graduation photos or glamor shots, it's only fair, thank you.

Also, I need to be honest here, I'm trying to quit smoking yet. I've cut down quite a bit already. I am respectful enough not to smoke around a date that doesn't smoke. I've quit before and I will be successful one last time.


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The first meeting should be something simple but fun. A couple drinks or cup of coffee at some small quiet place where we can actually talk, maybe play some pool, shoot some darts, or just take a walk in the park. Anything where we can both be comfortable and enjoy our time together making a new friend. The first real "date" should be something fun we both enjoy doing.

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