i am looking for a woman who is a nice hippy chick. non smoker, isn't always on her phone. no country music. not drastically over or under weight. almost anything else is negotiable.

honestly, i'm probably going to move to mexico in about six months, give or take as soon as i'm ready. my brother in law's family lives in a small town called zirahuen in michoacan, mexico and they'd like me to come down there and help build on it and develope the land. but i wanna meet some people before i go.

here's where i could tell you about how i'm a nice guy and i'm caring and smart and funny and blah blah blah. that would make reading this a lot like reading any other dude's page. in the interest of being unique, i'll tell you all the terrible things i don't do.
like cheat.
and lie.
and steal.
or express my anger physically.
or take someone for granted.
or knock you up and run away.
or knock you up at all, really.

i hope that was funny.
my life, because i'm single, consists of staying alive and playing music. You may think, staying alive? how hard is that? but have you been chased by a bear? or been set up for grand larsony? Have you ever had the coked-out bouncers of the bar your roommate just robbed waiting for you at your apartment? ever breathe tear gas?
not all those are exaclty life threatening, but adventurous to say the least.
it's been such a weird ride so far.

the woman who responds to this is: in her twenties with no kids and has never been married.
she plays music and is very passionate about what she likes.
she dated nerdy guys in school.
most people don't understand her and maybe that because she's still on a journey of self discovery.
she didn't vote for mccain and probably hasn't voted at all.
she has a good relationship with her family.
for some reason, she hasn't been able to find mr. right and she's starting to think that maybe such an idea is ludicrous.
she probably only surfs this site for laughs, but maybe she was surprised by what she found here.

i find it's a lot of fun to smoke bowls and surf this website. some nights, i look at all the girls with hats on. some nights, it's sunglasses too.
some nights, i look at all the girls taking cell phone pictures of themselves from up above, like so many of them do.
it's kinda funny. and you should try it sometime.
high on...my list of rediscovered favorite things to do:
...listen to jazz while i cook. which reminded me how much i really like to see live jazz.

for first date, or really any date i like to go see live music. the only thing is, i have a deep and abiding love for reggae music. karaoke? i love karaoke, but it does not always love me back. it would be nice to go out and talk among friends and get to know each other. i'd kiss but wouldn't get naked. i'm not into heartbreakers.