Having been widowed for over a year after 32 years of marriage I am looking to find a lady that has interest in more then the trivial and mundane gossip of life. She should be well educated and possibly working or having worked in a technical career. Above all she should be honest and forthright in what she is looking for in a mate for life. I am a very humorous person injecting puns and word play into my conversation all of the time. However, I am a straight forward person who is very open and direct. I also speak Estonian from my maternal heritage. I am not looking for casual dating to pass the time, but specifically to find a person who I would like to spend the rest of my years till one or the others expiration date.

The first date or meeting will most likely at restaurant with a great deal of conversation to get to understand our interests, histories and compare plans for what we hope to achieve as goals for the future. It would be a session of reciprocal interviews between the two of us. If there is a spark of attraction and commonality of life's goals then further contact will be sought to see how it all plays out.