If your idea of greeting a lady is "Say ma, what it do" or "hey lil mama let me holla at you" or "Shawty what yo name is" ....I am NOT the woman for you. If your pants are down around your knees, or you think having a mouth full of platinum teeth or being "so hood" is something to aspire to, or you use the phrase "Baby Mama" to describe the mother of your child/children...I am NOT the woman for you. I am grown woman who knows my worth, respects myself and has standards and only grown men who are on the same level interest me.

That being said,I like people who like themselves and are open to seeing the beauty in things not typically thought of as beautiful...overall I'm a pretty cool person. I'm a single mom of two little girls who are my pride and joy and I am currently obtaining a degree in medical lab technology. I am looking to meet someone who is open to the idea of finding something special, and really seeking like-minded individuals who don't mind taking chances and don't take themselves too seriously. Prefer those who can string together enough words to produce coherent sentences and its a plus if you've read a book or two! In all seriousness, i would like to meet anyone who feels they have something real to say and who knows how to enjoy life and the people around them. I would like someone who realizes the things that make us different don't just make us beautiful, they make us human.


My passion is Film, Film and more Film. Everything from silent, to black and white to really bad stuff like Evil Dead II. I love movies and the art of making movies. I am a sports freak, but not the least bit athletic. I love art and all aspects of it: paint, design, photography...doesn't really matter as long as its creative.

I love music and listen to, well, everything. Seriously, everything from GreenDay to Norah Jones, to Ludacris to Fergie. I like Live, Staind, Nirvana, Lupe Fiasco, Eric Clapton, The Strokes, The Fray, The Killers, Snow Patrol, almost all glamrock, Nickelback, The **** Cat Dolls, AFI, Linkin Park, Red Hot Chilli Peppers, John Mayer, lustra, Mary J. Blige, Justin Timberlake, Chris Daughtry, Kelly Clarkson, R. Kelly, Robin Thicke, Fall Out Boy, Panic! At the Disco, The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus, Miles Davis, ColdPlay, U2, Kanye West, Beyonce, Neo, Ciara, The Isley Bros., boney James, Brian McKnight, Joe, still love Jon B., to classical like Bach or Beethoven.... Music is art for your ears.

My perfect first date in all honesty is just hanging out downtown, maybe popping in a gallery to check out the art and see what interest you, or walking and talking and grabbing a slice of pizza or something...no elaborate set up, lol. Just a chance to get to know each other without any pressure.