Hello, I'm Jay! I am easy going, lovable, kind, generous, and I have a unique sense of humor. I'm proud to say I never had enemies. I go out of my way to have people like me. I am a great listener and I think I've always given good advice when it comes to friends. I guess you can say I'm a 'nice guy'. I don't do bad things because, well, they're bad! I don't do drugs. I have no criminal background. Heck, I never even drank coffee or touched a cigarette. Oh, and I'm one of the few men who had never and will never hit a woman!!! I have no pity on the cowardly men who need to abuse women in order to feel dominant. I had not yet been married and I do not have any children.

I am hoping to meet a woman who can love a man for simply being who he is, and not what he is. She should enjoy being the center of his attention while never growing weary of appreciation and praise. Everyone has faults, but it's those faults that make us human. It's our own little flaws that separate ourselves from everyone else. I've learned that the outside may be deceiving to what's on the inside. It's what's on the inside that causes us to fall in love.

I think people should be more honest and open. It's better to get the deep dark secrets out of the way first instead of dealing with them later on. I am a very honest man and I am never afraid to be truthful, even if it may cause some discomfort. Along with honesty, I am respectful, caring, compassionate, attentive, devoted, and loyal when it comes to relationships. I had never been unfaithful to anyone I was in a relationship with. I've been told I put my relationships before anything else. Is that a bad thing? I never treat anything more important than the woman in my life. That's the genuine man that I am and that will never change.

PLEASE DO NOT RESPOND IF you are currently married. I dated a married woman once and I'll never do it again. Also, I am too mature for meaningless sex. There are sites for that. Sex is as psychological as it is physical. It can't be purely fulfilling without either one. Yea, I'm not like most men. So go find one of them if you're into random sex. Once you've had real sex, the kind of sex that goes beyond its physical limits, you'd never want to have sex the prehistoric way again! It's the ability to surpass basic reasoning that separates us from the animal world. We are humans, so let's stop acting like animals.

I used to think that internet dating was not for me. But thanks to POF, I now prefer to learn about someone here than at a bar or club. So here I am!

Here's one of my favorite quotes: "Grade school teaches us what to think, college teaches us how to think, but it's life that teaches us why to think." - me!