If you feel that you're a normal girl that does not stand out, I am not interested
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I like just doing my own thing, and letting others do the same. That, I guess, is what brings me here. I mean, who has time for the normal dating scene? What is the normal dating scene? I work straight midnights, and going out to try and meet people just isn't how I wish to spend my free time. I've done the bar scene...I worked in them for close to ten years. That scene never changes, only the people. This online thing is fairly new to me, and so far it (this site) seems like it's full of dull people who hype themselves up. Not to sound negative, because I am far from it, but why would anyone be anything but honest online? Like, who would they be trying to impress?...those people who they'll never meet anyways? I know definatively the kind of man I am...compassionate. I live a clean and healthy life, and this gives me the ability to help others achieve the same. That's what I want really: to be a part of people who are ready to enjoy their lives and those of others. I speak my mind and listen patiently to others. There is no need for me to front. I am confidence. Not over-confident mind you, but completely aware of my limits. This site is kinda like a first date...it allows me to filter though non-matches without investing too much of myself. That's what appeals to me the most...being able to find a great girl, without working too hard at it. I am not lazy mind you, just realistic. I am looking, ultimately, for love. I feel that two people should compliment one another, make each other glow, but who can really sum themselves up in one paragraph?...so message me if you want to know anything else.

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