Please read the profile before contacting me. It is honest in it's description of my situation and I do not want to mislead anyone.....

Ok, second time of writing this because I read the first one a few times and it sounded a bit arrogant!! Whilst I could be accused of being confident and quite self-assured, I do hope that I am not arrogant!

I'd love to find a lady who could be my friend, my confidante and my lover. All three rolled into one is a tall order but I'm sure she's out there.....

I'm a simple man (you all are I hear many of you saying....lol) and I have simple tastes. I can be happy doing lots of different things but believe that the most imnportant is being with someone who thrills you with her presence. Someone that makes the atmosphere electric, someone who gives you those butterflies in the tummy....

I like intelligent (and flirty) conversations and I believe the best way to a womans affections is through the mind. Please come and check me out, I really am looking for an intellectual sparring partner. I think that I am able to string together words into meaningful and interesting sentences and establishing mental rapport is an excellent way to tune into someone else.

Whilst I can talk about most things, I am also a pretty good listener. I am tactile, affectionate, ambitious and enthusiastic and when a mental connection is established, I am not shy of committing time and energy to exploring the potential.

I hope none of this makes me sound big-headed. This whole concept requires a sales pitch.............. and my friends tell me that I'm really good company! I can talk for England (well Wales actually!) but I can also listen attentively. I am kind, caring, a little bit naughty and have a good soh (even if it is a bit corny at times!).

I've made a successful career (so far) professionally. I've run businesses (still do) but I'm thinking that I'd like some 'me' time and some 'me' attention. Eventually, you realise that there is more to life than just working!

I am married - there is no mistake in my marital status.

And if all you wish to do is mail me and crticise me for being here whilst being married - please don't waste your time. I've heard all the comments before. For those that can get beyond this, of course there is an explanation.....

Good company, glass or two of wine..............see if you want to spend more time or run away! Then maybe see where the mood takes us. I promise you it won't be dull.....:-)