****UPDATE****
Let me make one thing very clear... I am NOT looking for a daddy for my children as they already have an AMAZING father who is very involved with them financially, physically and emotionally. With that being said.... I'm looking for MY BEST FRIEND... :)

Gentlemen.... And Yes, you know who I'm speaking to...... I know what I like and I won't settle. I'm very happy and after all that life has thrown my way I can say that I'm in a good place in my life/world and I'm looking forward to what the future holds. I'm an Event Planner, with my own business and I LOVE IT! Keeps me very busy. I'm an intelligent conversationalist, and I tend to speak my opinion (bad habit lol) although I am open minded and respectful of others opinions, even if they're wrong. I'm kidding. :-) I do live life to the fullest. Friends would describe me as confident, hard headed, genuine, loyal and most importantly kind. I was previously a flight attendant for 8 years which I took traveling for granted. My profession has changed and I will be the first to admit that I miss the lifestyle. I MISS TRAVELING!! I'm a mother of my 5 diamonds ages ranging from 21 to 12. I've been divorced for 5 yrs and I do have shared custody with their father, which is a great thing. Our worlds revolve around raising healthy/happy/succesful adults.. NO DRAMA HERE!!! What a beautiful thing. I was born and raised in Hawaii and I'm an Island Girl in every way. I am a genuine woman, and I do gravitate to others with that same quality. I enjoy the simple things in life, but LOVE the greater things as well. I find myself to be uneasy around people who tend to not be comfortable with themselves. I have a problem with dishonesty. I have to be able to trust. I enjoy a fabulous dvd at home with a bottle of red wine with yummy crab legs and butter. I enjoy beautiful smiles and soft kisses. I enjoy being pampered and adored. As no gestures will go un-noticed or returned. I enjoy holding hands in the rain or a walk in the park. It truly doesn't take too much to make me smile. I am told that I do have a temper... lol. I'm a Taurus, not by choice. Kidding. I'm a very passionate woman. With that in mind, I do have a stubborn streak but I'm very willing to compromise. I'm passionate when I'm happy, sad, upset... but with that comes an enormous heart of gold. I know what I like..... What I'm looking for is my "Best Friend" ...simple as that............. NOW LET'S TALK ABOUT HIM AND WHO I'M LOOKING FOR........... Hmmmm... Okay, here's the deal. I'm 40 years YOUNG (lol) and I don't want to be alone anymore. Like everyone else I'm over the B/S and Drama. My life is drama free and "I want to keep it this way"... I want a man who's TRULY genuine and TRULY real. I want to meet a man who loves and adores his MOTHER. I'm raising my own 3 Kings and a mother/son relationship is very important to me. I want a successful man who's very well balanced in his life. More importantly... a man who will TRULY ADORE ME and will NOT take away from my "self worth" but will add goodness to my world. HE MUST be able to cook WELL as I love to eat!! lol. I think a man who cooks is OH SO SEXY!!! Don't get me wrong as I do know how to cook.... :-) I can hold my own in the kitchen. lol. HE has to love to smile..... ALOT!! A smile speaks so clearly with amazing volume to be heard for miles. He has to have a great sense of humor to keep up with me. Make me laugh... let's laugh together. Tell me your aches and pains, your wants, dreams, ambitions.... and then tell me something you wouldn't want me to know..... "I'm listening"....... An intelligent man turns me out!!!!! Confidence without being arrogant. The most important quality that I'm looking for in "HIM" is kindness and genuinity. It's not the size of his bank account, but the size of his "Heart" that will capture me. HE will do for others without knowing or wanting the value of his returns. I want to trust HIM to the fullest and respect him as he will respect me. HE will move me in a way to where I will want to be a better woman, mother, daughter, friend as I will move HIM to be a better man. I'm not looking for perfection as there is room for mistakes... I'm looking for the simplicity of happiness and joy. Thank you for stopping by and visiting.... Don't be shy..... I'm listening..... however, "IF" you do decide to contact me.... please be "Brilliant" on your approach and set yourself a part from the "Riff-Raffs"....... Believe me, I do know the difference and I am "offended" by the "Ghetto Fabulous Approach".... as this is "NOT ME"..... Also, "IF" you don't have any information about "Who YOU are" in your profile, you're wasting your time with me as "Photos" do NOT stimulate my mind. Sorry. I promise I'm really not that complicated...... lol. I'm listening.........

Something simple. No pressure. Just enjoy each others company with no distractions. BUT there definitely has to be some food!!! A girls' gotta eat!

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