I'm 47 with 3 kids. Two are still living at home. My 20 year old has graduated and my other one is 19 year old and she graduated this year. The third one is my son, he was 22 and killed in an automobile accident. I have fibromyalgia. That is where your muscles and joints are constantly in pain. I'm on meds so I can still do most of the things I enjoy just have to take it slower. lol. Right now I'm looking for friends but have no idea where that might lead. I have discovered after this long in life you just never know what the next day will bring. Guess that is why I just live one day at a time right now. The nest is slowly empting and I'm intrested in just seeing what happens as the kids leave. I have been divorced for 12 years and have dated some but have standards and don't believe in playing games or lying. I am also old fashioned and will not make the first call to a guy to see about going out on a date. I believe that is up to the guy upon mutual agreement. I will add you to my favorites list if I am intrested in you or even send an email first but after that it's up to the guy. I don't like to feel like I am chasing some guy if you know what I mean. I am honest almost to a fault or so I've been told. I should mention that I am a smoker and and in the process of quiting. thank you for taking the time to read all of this.

I guess for a first date I would like to have someone who would call first to set up the date. Then maybe dinner and a movie but it has to be a choice that we both agree on and then maybe if things go good coffee and more talking. Then being driven home and walked to the door and then maybe a kiss depending on how the date went. Just read through this and I really do sound old fashioned. lol. Maybe a kiss at the car when we leave in seperate vehicles. lol.