About Me: I was born and raised in Bari, Italy. I'm 39 years old and have been living in the Schaumburg area 20+ years. My friends would describe me as being a loyal and honest person. I play no games. At this point in my life, I would like to be able to find my best friend and lover. I like to laugh and have a good time. Spending time with friends and family is important to me. I have strong family values, having been raised in a Catholic Italian family. I like living a healthy lifestyle and try to cook healthy and exercise . I have two dogs, Andre and Bella. They keep me busy with daily walks! :) I have a good heart. Making people smile and laugh makes ME happy. I would never be one to purposely hurt a person's feelings. I have strong character and am a person of consistency. For example, I have been with the same employer for 16+ years.

About YOU: Looks are important but I've learned that it's what a person possesses on the inside is what counts. Looks change but character does not. I am looking for someone with an honest personality that works hard and knows the value of a hard earned dollar. I find confidence and motivation to be attractive qualities as well as a woman that is educated and career-minded. Independency and trust are important to me too. I want to get to know YOU for YOU, not anyone's false perceptions.

It's hard to say what I would want to do on a first date without knowing your interests first. I would say something that's simple. Maybe a drink or cup of espresso? I think we all know what first dates should be like...lots of conversation without the pressure of any obligation. It's the second and third dates that would consist of something more romantic...maybe a nice dinner out?

If you like what you've read, feel free to email me. I would like to hear from you. Joe P.S. I think i look better in person then in photos. :)