Hi ladies, my name is Pat, and im a 36 year old, "N-B-M", father of two beautiful twins (BOY AND A GIRL) whom live at home with me. I don't rent, I own. Yes ladies there are some of us..(BLACK MEN)..who are hard working and still handling our business like that (GO OBAMA). And would be more than happy to have a good ass woman (THAT MOST DEFINATELY) "Has his back"..by his side. (REAL TALK): However, Here's a (REAL MAN REALITY CHECK TO ALL FEMALE'S CONFUSED ABOUT WHAT THEY REALLY WANT.)
There are "SOME" of U females who are vexly confused about what a (REAL MAN) is..All yall know is that yall want one
. Some of U feel a little intimidated by the fact that im raising my kids alone, and would rather buy into the steriotypes of how black men are suppose to be. I did'nt step up as a father for quote, "PLAYA POINTS", I did it because of my responsibilities. SO CHECK YOURSELF FIRST, MAYBE THAT'S JUST YOUR OWN INSECURITIES IN MEN. In my experiences dating, and listening to females, NO DRAMA, usually means "U want to be above the pecking order, and everything else". Why are some of U ladies so selfish? I'm so curious to know what some of U alls' definition of what a (REAL MAN) is? Some of us didn't receive that memo, SO LET ME VENT A LITTLE.
To me..even though a (MAN) respects himself and protects his woman at all times, regardless the situation. A (REAL WOMAN) respects herself as well. (I FEEL IF U HAVE TO SHOW "T and A" ON A WEBSITE TO GET NOTICED, YOU'RE ALREADY EXEMPT, "U ONLY GET WHAT YOU ASK FOR". OH, MY BAD..U WERE JUST BEING FLIRTATIOUS BUT, did it work? This next paragraph may offend a few, so (VIEWER DISCRETION IS ADVISED)
(FOR EXAMPLE:) U R not looking for an "Intimate Encounter" However, your picture show's U all splurged over your bed, damn near about to have an orgasm!
"A REAL MAN DON'T WANT TO SEE THAT". "Especially you Grannies in Panties"! That's not SASSY AND CLASSY, that's NASTY AND TRASHY, and it also takes away from the mystery factor. Not unless (YOU) yourself "ARE", or looking for an internet perv, "PUT SOME DAMN CLOTHES ON"! It also shows a lack of self-worth on top of that, "Desperate". So why are U so mad at the responses you receive? "HEY LOOK", IF U WANT A MAN TO RESPECT U, (STOP LETTING YOUR ASS TALK FOR U) I'm not "HATING", (Personally, I love haters. B/C they let me know when i'm handling my biz. Not being judgemental ladies, But advertisement is a whole different thing Ma'.) REAL TALK!!! (MY NAME IS PAT, AND I APPROVED THIS MESSAGE)
STR8 UP THOUGH LADIES, if U don't respect yourselves , how do you know if a real man is what U even want? And will he want U? Especially, after he has seen "THE GOODIES"
? Seriously though, ("Would U know one if he was staring U in the face")? Or is it, U really dont know what the hell it is U want, and saying U want a (REAL MAN) just sounds good rolling off your tongue.
There's alot of guys out here..who are good men. Some of yall find our types boring! So to U, I say..Happy Dog Hunting.
Hope U come out the Dog House Soon! STR8 UP though..some of yall need to (STAY) in the dog house, because, your boy "Yeah right"! Is the only type of "person" that U respect. U know the ones...The Big Ballers, and Shot Callers..the one(S) that's always (CLOCKIN U UPSIDE YOUR DAMN HEAD "Lights out time") "Let me ask you this? IS IT THE EXCITEMENT FACTOR IN DATING THIS TYPE OF MAN? AND I USE THE TERM "MAN" LOSELY? Because, if that's your idea of a loving man (HE) can have you. (OH YEAH..AND KEEP MAKING URSELF BELIEVE THAT HE DOTTED THAT EYE OF YOURS CAUSE HE "LUV U") I Hope the both of U enjoy yall stay in the "CONVICT INN" together and..PLEASE..keep your dumb ass by his side (DON'T DO US ANY FAVORS O.K.) It's just "REAL TALK".
Me personally, I like things that appreciate with time, and hold it's value. STABILITY is a key issue for me as well. Life is too short 4 U not to know exactly what U want out of it. Even though sometimes U have to grin and bare it, that shouldn't stop your willingness in achieving your goals. B/C to me, a goal-oriented woman is the most gifted thing that God has ever broken the mold on. (TO YOU LADIES WHO CAN COMPREHEND WHAT IM TALKING ABOUT...BIG UPS' 2 U "GOD BLESSES THE CHILD WHO HAS IT'S OWN"
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The type(s) of women i'm attracted to are those who are assure of themselves, confident, witty, outgoing, open-minded, humorous, and believes in herself. (U CAN BUILD ON THAT). For those of U who are offended by what i've said so far (STOP) reading now!! "You're Lost", and you need not apply (FORREAL DONT)! I respect a woman that takes interest in herself and surroundings, because that will also reflect in the man whom she's with. And let face it..who want somebody that (DON'T) nobody want " It's just REAL TALK". However, im not one of these superficial type of brothers either.. who thinks (Max Factor, Mabeline, and all of those Wall Street Investors) really know how a woman is suppose to look. I say.."IF YOU'RE NOT COMPFORTABLE WITHIN YOUR OWN SKIN" so be it. But stop laughing at Micheal Jackson.
I do consider myself a respectful man (sometimes too respectful) but I also believe in the end, if it's all meant to be, it'll happen regardless."So imma just lay on back, and let time be on my side".
I like to pamper my lady in public places, introduce her to new things and people, And make her feel like the (LADY SHE IS) in every sense of the word, (Until she give me the reason not to). Yes, I have a Little (GHETTO THUG)
in me, and don't we all, but i'm about handling my business ALWAYS. No, im not the perfect man, never claimed to be. But I try to conduct myself in a gentlemanly way, ( IF I FEEL YOU ARE WORTHY OF IT). Being from Louisiana, I believe in SOUTHERN HOSPITALITY and treating a (Lady) like she deserves to be treated (REAL TALK). However, im not a pushover either "Homie don't play that". I'm looking 4 a (100% WOMAM), Not daddys' little
I have a little girl of my own.
Sorry to sound so bold, and blunt, that's the GEM--IN--I, and I dont sugar coat a thing. I lay my cards on the table. I'm not here to win any popularity contest so my intensions are sincere. However, if games are indeed what ur looking for, i'm quite sure that there's plenty of men on this site to oblidge U with all of that (BS). But if ur looking for a man with a personality, charisma, vitality and who is morally stable. Someone who will stimulate your mind, and have some uplifting words for U. I'm just an E-mail away.
I would like to thank U all for stopping by. "Now I ask the question"? (ARE YOU REALLY LOOKING FOR A REAL MAN OR JUST SOMEONE TO COAT YOUR SUGAR?) Keep it real!!!
Whatever comes naturally (something spontaneous) im so tired of the certain "Ethical Rules"..that you have to go by when you are dating and courting a person..I just dont understand why we can't be ourselves? (WHO INVENTED THE RULE BOOK OF DATING ANYWAY)? Why do alot of people think a date is suppose to be politically correct? I feel it's about me and you...and that's all. Thats why most of these politically correct MF's are all by themselves (LET'S JUST DO US). I want to finally have a chance..to do something outside of the box. Like having an old fashioned water fight on a nice day (Hope your hair isn't your priority), or you hopping on my back for a piggyback ride. . Hell, i'll even take that funky ass train ride through the zoo! Where do it say that we (ALWAYS) have to be in a (bar) getting drunk
to get to know each other better? That's for people who dont have confidence in themselves. Sh!t, personally..(I FEEL)..if I have to be drunk
to be able to conversate with you..or break the tension, I dont need you..we dont have a damn thing in common! And what kind of relationship do you think we'll have anyway? At least we'll have one thing in common...Alcoholics Anonymous. (REAL TALK)
("ON A MORE SERIOUS TIP") Some of you females think that i'm a bitter, and scourned man, because my words seem harsh. ("NOT BY A LONG DAMN SHOT") I just hate to see beautiful women subjecting themselves, for the sake of a person, who isn't even worthy of it. A man takes notice to these things, and let that woman know that everything about her and who she is, ("SHOULD BE LOOKED UPON AS A TEMPLE") that belongs to God. And it should be treated as such, and not as
. However, a (REAL WOMAN) already knows this. And if you keep finding yourself in the same ole' types of relationships that you've had in the past. (It's not the man that keeps breaking your heart), It's actually the TYPE(S) of men that you attract, that keeps breaking your heart. (PHYSICAL ATTRACTION IS THE "FIRST" THING IN MEETING SOMEONE). If a man look upon you as being (A HOE or HOE-ISH), believe me, (YOU WILL BE TREATED AS SUCH). Take an inventory on "YOURSELF", before you become so offended and change that perception. That's also goes vice-versa.
And for those of you females taking pictures in your bathroom, keep it real! Tell that man of yours in the other room, to get off his funky ass, and that playstation, and come show you some attention. So (YOU) can stop coming to P.O.F looking for it. Take heeve ladies I would'nt tell you nothing wrong. (REAL TALK)
P.S. ATTN: Ladies, If your (FAVORITES LIST) looks like a damn (AREA-CODE) your azz don't need a man, "YOU NEED JESUS!!!
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