I go by actions, not words , so if you say one thing, yet dont back it up with an action, do not read past this opening.
as of august 13 2009 at 11:30 am, I consider my self an ex smoker, wish me luck
Ciao a tutti
First thing I would like to say is, I treat all people equally. I dont think anyone is beneath me, and more importantly, no one is above me. I hope to find someone with that same mindset.
I think its funny that if one chooses high school as his /her education level. it comes up as NA. The school I went to was of hard knocks, and has brought me further than any secondary, institutionalized education has done for most, for example, people who have gone to college, but cant spell it, nor have any direction or footing in life.
I want to meet honest people with integrity and some form of cooth . No, I didn't go to college, and I'm not white collar, sorry, i have calloused hands, my profession does not make me dumb,and I know many dumb doctors and lawyers that i deal with everyday, but if thats what you want, have fun with it, I'm not here to provide u with a 401k anyway ( what ever happened to those darn things ), ( yes, some women actually put their financial needs in their profile, its quite repulsive)
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so, I'm looking for someone I deem beautiful.It does have to do with looks, thats the first thing that attracts me ( sue me, I'm a normal male), buts its not all about the visual, though we all have our preferences,its a preference, not a prejudgement, I would rather be with someone I'm physically and mentally attracted to at once.
A bad disposition can turn a pretty lady into a very unattractive one,and its kind of cute how many of these women use so many adjectives to color themselves as being so sweet and nice and down to earth, yet their actions seem to indicate otherwise. Women who think they're so pretty that they can be rude are unattractive,its not a challenge to me to conquer a woman with these issues, its a red flag. Confidence and self esteem is sexy, c*o*c*kiness, arrogance and egocentricism is not, and if you have one of those "wanna be in playboy" sexy poses, dont bother, it looks silly, just be natural, I'm sure you dont go wrapping your legs around walls and hang out in lingerie in bed all day.
By the way, some of you are so arrogant, it makes you ugly, we're all here for the same reason ladies, get off your high horse and stand on the ground, you know who you are. I'm not looking to date princesses or divas please, been there, done that.
With that said, I'm a homebody, a book of useless information ( I love trivia ), business owner,home owner, established, responsible, I'm always joking , I dont like stiffness, but I know when to be serious,I'm a geek, love snuggling, not clingy , very kind hearted, and will do anything for my family or for a suffering animal.
I've been single for 4 years now, and I'm very content, although eventually, I hope to find someone I may share my life with. I love documentaries and prefer them over movies.
I am of Italian descent, and Italian was my first language,I also speak some Spanish and French.
I have a great affection for animals, especially dogs.
I'm looking for someone who wont mistake my kindness for stupidity,I'm known for having a huge heart and people taking advantage of that. Just looking to meet right now, and see what happens, I'm not going to die if I dont meet "the one", and I'm not aggressive as far as meeting women goes, I usually wait until I'm approached, it's just how I am, also, I've never been into the bar scene, not much of a party animal.
I've never been arrested, smoked pot twice when I was 18, and I dont really drink much at all, I think I still have beer in my fridge from labor day a year ago, and I dont gamble, pretty boring huh
I'm just under 6 ft,maybe 5ft 11 actually, @ 235, green hazel eyes, and clean shaven head, ( no, I wasnt going bald, I just like the look), moustache, goatee, yada yada yada. yes, i have a belly, no six pack here, sorry.
I'm not here to see how many people will add me to their favorites list ( I like to keep that minimal),I'm not here to be part of the pretentious popularity contest, very picky with whom I let into my life, and I'm not here to "pay to play", or waste my time with frivolity or drama, whatever happens, happens, if we click we click, if we dont, we dont, no harm or foul. I dont "need" a woman to take care of me, im quite content and self relying, i want someone to complement me , not baby me, and enjoy my space as i enjoy hers.
If your idea of a great first date involves someone spending lavishly on you to impress you with his credit, dont bother, if it involves getting to see how two people react chemically to each other,and enjoy the moment, then say hello
hope to hear from you, I'm in western suffolk, if not, good luck searching.
PLEASE DO NOT WASTE MY TIME IF YOU ARE A LIAR OR A PLAYER, OR IF YOU ARE A SNOB. I never thought there were so many effed up things people could do to someone before I came on this site
Please, do not contact me after u found out the guy you blew me off for is married or an abusive drug addict or womanizer who lives in his parents basement. Too many liars and rude women on here. Too many players
***** im not a firm believer in astrology, but for whatever reason, geminis are toxic to me
buona fortuna...... Rino

first date = i can do whatever my date wants to do, or nothing at all, if the company is right, i can sit in a cardboard box in a subway tunnel.