I am a people person, that is why i am in the line of work that i am in. I am what you would call the life of the party social butterfly. I usually don't date anyone over the age of 40 beause i am not one to sit home to watch movies every day of the week, or be in bed by 9pm, but it takes a true real confident man to change that Oh don't get me wrong i love a good movie every now and then especially on a rainy night, but not every night. I am not your usual 45 yr old woman i am very energetic and full of life what i mean by that is i have so much spunk that i will never back down from a not so womanly type of situation. I am a true believer that what you do in the dark will always come to light.!! I love football and boxing. Am i the one for you??? And gentlemen please i prefer black men.

On my first date I would want to just spend some time getting to know someone whether it be in a nice coffee shop maybe with live music or at a book store. You can tell alot about a man by the books he reads. I am not too picky and usually will be comfortable any place that both my date and I agree upon. I love cultures so even if that person is interested in doing something that included us learning about each others would also be an excellent first date.