Hi! My names DJ and I guess I am gonna go on a lil spill about who I am, what I am looking for and my beliefs and hobbies, oh geez.... Honesty is key to this whole dating thing, yet most people are liars so inevitably it never works. It would be incredible to meet someone is honest and just true to themselves. I do like someone who can hold a intelligent conversation and is full of life. I believe humor and self-value are two of the most important traits a person can possess...oh yea I love a beautiful smile.

I am 50% Italian, 50% Cherokee and 50% Hawaiian. Math was my worst subject if you could not tell....I do not believe chivalry is dead...call me crazy but that means I open the door for a lady, I stand when they stand from or sit at a table, basically I treat a woman how they are supposed to be treated! My mom would kill me otherwise lol... I take good care of myself physically, emotionally and mentally so I expect my partner to do the same. Creativity and energy are a must if you want to keep up with me. I would like to just go on a whim and fly to Greece (I lived there for two years and want to go back desperately) and lay on the beach and make sand castles till the sun sets and then hit the club for some close dancing, after which we share a bottle of red wine and watch the sun rise once again just to do it all again...that would be a perfect couple of days for me.

Some of my great awesome loving friends (so much sarcasm there lol) say I am full of myself but in general I am a good guy. I'm not looking for anything in particular, I just want to enjoy this magic carpet ride referred to as life and if a relationship comes out of it then great but I just don't believe in rushing that crazy thing called love. See the way I see it is I am perfectly happy and content as a party of one so its going to take a special girl to make me want a party of two....yea I'm pretty blunt but hey, at least I'm honest. If you think your smooth, ha you ain't seen nothing yet but come on out on the floor and I'll dance with ya. Like me or not, I continue to live and rock...

A few things about me......I am huge into fitness and health... have never smoked or done drugs EVER... do not fall for peer pressure and I don't follow the pack... have a dog named Lil Britches, a rat named Master Splinter and a cat named Chuck Norris(he lives with my mom now) who are my best friends and if you don't like either of them OR their names it will never work out between us... am a hopeless romantic and I try to top every romantic idea I have... love my mother and father and I thank them for guiding me to become the man I am today.. love to learn new things and I try to read some type of informative book every couple weeks.

I have done a ton of things in a short time, I have been a martial arts instructor (Womens assault prevention), I have been a chef,, I have worked as a A&R agent and helped bring a small recording agency up and out to the public, I have been a police officer, I have been in the Navy, I have been a entertainer and performer, a lifeguard at Disney and now a Market Fraud Investigator for a retail company and I am also going to be a substitute teacher part-time which I am very excited about!!!!! I will never limit myself to the things I can do, its the only way I'll find out what I love to do.

I love movies and I quote them all the time (any Will Ferrell, Vince Vaughn, or any of their amigos, "stepbrothers" is the greatest movie ever). I love charities and volunteering and I have worked with Make a wish foundation, Children s equatorial fund and Special Olympics on numerous occasions. I give money to the homeless man on the corner with the sign, not because I feel obligated but rather I want to.... JUST IN CASE he/she is legitimately homeless.

As far as what I want to do hmmmmm, there's a ton but mostly I would love to get into writing/directing or producing films (as one of my favorite hobbies is writing screenplays) but I'm working on my masters in Criminal Justice or I MIGHT work to get my MD in Forensic Pathology (but jeez 4 to 5 years of residency and then another 1 to 2 of pathology fellowship, I don't know anymore about that) which hopefully will led to a federal job with FBI or DEA, it's a little more of a secure future. BUT, that does not mean I do not chase my dreams and I chase them avidly. I have been painting alot lately since I have had writers block for my scripts...ooo ooo I play piano but I'm trying to learn guitar (not going too well ha)!

If you are not confident in yourself or are not outgoing please do not waste either of our time...I may not know exactly what I do want, but I have a very good clue of what I don't...

(New Add)......What’s up with the snooty girls on here?! I mean they write me FIRST and then I don't answer how they want they go all Paris on me.....trust me, I don't care what you think. As far as I'm concerned your just another self-absorbed chick who has internet rejection issues....now I know alot of self-righteous people are going to say "hey he's wrong or he deserved it somehow" and I know not to argue with idiots because they will drag you down to their level and then beat you with experience but hey I look at it this way if I agreed with you we'd both be wrong! If you're one of these girls please do me a favor; get over yourself or don't write me.

Another new add (Oct09): Ok Ok, so I know my profile is long and ever expansive but I have to add this.... so I could not sleep tonight and was bored outta my mind so I did something I should have done a long time ago. Out of pure curiosity I checked out other guys profiles around my stats to see whom I was competing with. Now i have received many an email telling me that there are some douchebags and tools out there but I gotta say WOW.......never thought there were that many, I actually LOL hahhahahahahahha.....so many self centered, insecure guys with their shirts off flexing as hard they can looking as if they may poop their selves at any moment and others putting up pics of their cars (or random ones on the street) or things that they think may make them look cooler. Knights of Columbus, these guys are sad. The best is the obvious lies trying to impress a girl, one guy said he was a MMA fighter and if you didn’t know what that means it means cage fighter hahahahhahahahahha. Wow its a wonder how I can even get a date with anyone nowadays with real winners like this in my circle. I might need to flex really hard and pop a vessel all the while standing in front of a rented Lambo......geez fellas ever heard of being your self??

Wow, did you know that I tried to type more in here and it would not let me!!!!! Hahhahahah that's awesome...:down:

Anything fun and creative. A first date should linger in your mind after its done and gone. Something where we can both be ourselves from the start, so there is no confusion about what we are getting into by us trying to "impress" the other. you the know the normal things such as but not limited to midget wrestling, climbing trees with spider monkeys, wooden boat making, chasing rainbows throughout a rainy day and frolicking naked in the wilderness. Or perhaps play a little game called "just the tip". Just for a minute, just to see how it feels. Or, ouch, ouch you're on my hair. Normal things like that...