the fun part, well pending who you ask, Im told Im many things, from quite the catch to work a holic to materialistic. who do I think I am well lately I seem to be someone who has been important in a lot of peoples lives, helping them to see the good things, positive outlook on life and themselves. If I can help one person to feel better about themselves or see life in a different way its all worth it. Im straight forward, told I have a big heart but have the bad boy look which is what most people judge you by anyway. But thats fine thier loss not mine. :))) I have worked hard to get where I am in life and working towards being able to have more time to enjoy all my interests. I enjoy cooking, more fun when done together. Why am I still single good question wish it was easy to answer or too find the girl next door but not that simple. Looking for well not even sure anymore quess I will know when it comes to me. You can chat for ever on here but if you dont meet will never know if it will go further or not. Best of luck to you all :)))))

If we end up chatting and your not interested at anytime I'd appreciate honesty if you don't want to get better acquainted. Don't think your doing me or anyone else by saying something nice , your not hurting our feelings we are all grown ups, leading on with false comments is worst.

First date hmmm well maybe first encounter is a better choice, a coffee or tea, good conversation , maybe go for a walk weather permitting. Dating is a precautionary measure to find out if this is someone you want to know better or not, no need to be shy or worry about hurting someone. For all of you who would like to see a pic I have private ones that I can send but not when you have MUST HAVE A PICTURE ON PROFILE TO MESSAGE THIS PERSON doesn't allow anyone to send you anything. Sorry if I sound mean but you have restriction I have no pic posted , you never know whats behind door # 1 or #2 and what you may be passing on, but if the pic is more important than who I am better I don't know you anyway. I have a great life and happy not looking for complications. I want someone who walks along side me not infront or behind, 50/50 relationship, not needy and you should be happy with who you are. Im not perfect no plans on it either but I will be the best I can be :)))