Life is not measured by the amount of breaths we take but by the moments that take our breath away...I have two full-time jobs & two sons who I see when their social lives permit it, makes for a slightly insane schedule...My true match will be just as involved in his work as he is in his relationship...our time together would be limited but definitely worth it...having someone in my life who has to wait around for me to finish work is not a user friendly relationship for me...I love both my jobs...down time is nice...but in small amounts...I love anything to do with the outdoors & am open to suggestion for anything else...I definitely know what I want & what I don't want...I'm partial to tall/husky bald(ing) men & motorcyles...facial hair & nice teeth are a must...honesty is important if you practice it all the time not when it suits the moment...I don't date anyone younger, shorter, or weighs less & although I don't have a problem with you owning sandals, just don't wear them around me...baby feet are cute, big feet not so much & I don't do long distance relationships...I'm open to change & suggestion...but if you're looking for someone to control...keep searching...I'm feisty, opinionated & out spoken which is all part of my charm...I've thought of giving up a cazillion times...but I hold the hope that there is a man waiting just around the corner who has enough balls to love a good challenge...I'm definitely worth it..."And our fearless, redheaded heroine carries on. 'Once more into the breach' she cries, as she forges ahead yet again, in search of that ever elusive stick man, who she can call her very own".

My fantasy 1st date would be a completely dark room except for the light from outside, a Qu/K bed, cold cotton sheets, window open with a breeze blowing & a thunderstorm outside & most importantly, someone to hold me while I sleep...or...if I could find someone to go for a walk with me by the falls on my lunch break...that would be perfect...I like to be as low maintenance as possible...then a perfect ending would be an incredible kiss...Now back to reality, to actually make it to a 1st date would be a great start...making plans for a 2nd would be as close to perfect as I need...