Well, what to say. I consider myself a pretty good looking guy with a good head on my shoulders. I love to sing, infact its what I do the most. I have three children who live with me. Anyone who wants to talk to me must like children and be able to deal with the fact that they still love their mother. I am a computer programmer (Not a geek). I have many different goals in my life. I would like to write video games, I would like to be a star, I would like to act in movies, write screenplays, publish poetry, and much much more. Things I don't like, but I never try to push on other peoples, are Rap Music, guys who can't pull there pants up, the whole gang banger thing. Other than that I'm pretty much open to anything. I am a very nice guy. I love helping other people. Probably one of my biggest weaknesses or strengths is my ability to forgive anyone for things that they have done. I love forgiving people it makes me feel good about myself and tells a lot about the person I really am. I'm still stuck in the 80s. Love rock, classic rock, rock ballads, and believe it or not classical music. Anyway, I could probably go on all day but I'm sure there's a limit. Contact me if you want anymore info.

My ideas of first date is going to dinner or a movie (I prefer a good action or sci fi). And then maybe just going out on a drive and getting know one another. I like to talk about the past and I like to here about the past. I like finding out about other women and learning what they've been through. It helps to relate. I am a romantic who likes to go out and sit under the stars (although the mosquitos are getting pretty bad around here). I like to be playful. unfortunately i'm not much of a dancer so I'd much rather go to a karaoke bar or any other bar for that matter, and sit down and have few drinks and again talk about things to find out more about each other. Is this all still on the first date? I guess it could be. Its hard to figure out what to do on a first date, I guess that whatever comes natural is my idea of a first date. And in the end it is always nice to get a hug and I do believe in kisses on the first date.