Being back out “there” and dating again is really tough! I am really beginning to think finding the right person is like finding a freaking needle in a haystack. I am hoping that does not sound too negative because I am actually a pretty positive person. I have found though that this internet dating thing really does not allow us to portray ourselves properly. Or perhaps some choose not to portray themselves truthfully. I am really not sure...but in the spirit of honesty here is a bit about me:

I was married for two years (no kids) and I have been out of that relationship for just over two years. Although I have no baggage or drama from my marriage I know for some men that may be a deal breaker, therefore I put this first so as not to waste your time if you are one of those men.

I have indicated my body type as “Few Extra Pounds” because that is the truth right now. I lead an active lifestyle (I enjoy running, spinning, swimming, yoga and strength training 4-6X a week) and I eat healthy in order to be healthy from the inside out. So eventually the Few Extra Pounds will change but really I want someone to be with me for what is inside not just what is on the outside. So if you really want someone “who is active and takes care of themselves” I do but if what you mean is “petite and skinny” that I am not.

What I am is a woman who is confident, assertive but also shy at times, has a great sense of humour, and wants to find that special someone to share her life with. My family and friends are important to me. I like to travel and enjoy different activities (movies, live theatre, dancing, dining out, dinner parties at home etc). I am passionate and compassionate. I am kind and giving to others but I am not a push over either. I would love to have a dog but my schedule does not make it possible right now (btw I am allergic to cats). I really love living in Toronto and enjoy all that it has to offer.

I am looking for a man who is also confident and assertive. Someone who knows what he wants in life and is willing to pursue it. I am looking for someone with whom I can laugh and really have fun. I have learned that relationships require two people who are able to enjoy each other, laugh together, and be able to communicate openly and honestly. Is this you? If so it would be great to hear from you!

I am assuming here that this would be the first meeting so perhaps coffee or drinks...so we can determine if there is going to be a second date :) I really believe that it is not what you are doing that makes the date great - it is who you are with!