HI, my name is James.

UPDATE: After some pretty awful "dates" ive decided to list what i am definately not looking for:

I'm not looking for a trophy chick! If you're over processed, over bleached, unaturally brown from sunbedding afraid to break a nail and your favorite topic of conversation is your shoe collection i'm really NOT interested.

Also all you "models" on here, go away, i'm not interested so don't waste yours or my time! If you have pictures that are of an "adult" style again i'm not interested, why would i want to possibly date someone who has shown their body to the whole world?

If you're really over weight and never exercise, yes god loves you and there is someone for you but it's not me, sorry if that hurts but again lets not waste our time here.

If you can't spell, speak or you write in text talk, can't hold a conversation then again sorry but i'm not interested!

If you are insecure, depressed or in need of counselling then sorry also but please move on!

OK on the basis that there is someone left and you are not any of the above please read on!

I would love to meet someone for Friendship/dating and if we get on well who knows, by that i don't mean i'm looking for the sort of "friendship" that some guys are on here IE just sex although some would be nice (just kidding)(no really just kidding).

I am really into my running, cycling and of course snowboarding. I am a nice guy, no really i am, I love my life and have very few regrets but i'm losing patience with people who just don't read my profile!

My ideal woman would be sporting/athletic enjoy skiing/snowboarding, running, cycling, have a mind of her own and an opinion. She'll need to be strong as i need someone to keep me on my toes. Having said all of that i'm not looking for someone to change their life totally just to fit in with me, that's not my expectation at all. Experience tells me though that it's good if you have some of the same interests so you can share times and experiences together rather than doing things that keep you apart. I hope that makes sense?

I have a son who i do not have any contact with (long story but nothing dodgy).

I don't have any hidden agendas, really i don't so feel free to drop me an email if you fancy a chat rather than keep looking at me as to be honest it's getting boring being "stalked" by the same faces day in and day out.

I do check out the people that view me so if you keep viewing me and i haven't emailed you then i'm sorry i'm not going to so please move along! I still don't understand WHY the same people view me day in day out, some i have said Hi to and they don't reply yet they still continue to look at me everyday!?!? If anyone can tell me why this is i'd love to hear from you!

Hmmm interesting, a drink in a nice bar or a relaxed meal in a nice restaurant with a bottle of red or maybe just a simple coffee somewhere on a Saturday or Sunday afternoon?

Female