My name is Val and I live in Nottingham. I work as an Account Manager, which equates to a glorified rep, just a fancy title thats all. I am fairly intelligent and enjoy the finer things in life without being a snob or relying or using a man to give me those things.I AM NOT LOOKING FOR PHONE CHAT OR EMAIL CHAT.I AM LOOKING FOR THAT SPECIAL PERSON. I am self sufficient have my own house, car am bubbly, fun to be with,I AM CERTAINLY NOT PERFECT,AND NOT LOOKING FOR SOMEONE WHO WANTS ME OR EXPECTS ME TO BE EITHER AS PERFECTION IS A BIG WORD.I care dearly about my friends and I really do hate upsetting people, i can spell lol and now that my daughter is 19 who still lives at home, its time for me to move on and enjoy life. I would consider myself a down to earth person,good mother,love animals, enjoy shopping (ime a women for god sake)holidays abroad, eating out, staying in, going to the pictures, walking, gardening, cooking, stimulating conversation and sadly :-( no good at DIY. I am a good listener, born romantic, however if you upset me I will tell you, i believe with being honest and straight with people and would never intentionally lead someone on. I am not a timewaster and neither do i want to experience timewasters. I like to live life to the full life as life is to short. I dont have a problem with trusting people and dont think people need to earn it, it should be there unless circumstances state otherwise.I try to look after myself, care about my appearance but if your looking for some size 10 wannabe model then i guess i will not be your type. Wouldnt consider myself fat but neither am I skinny, more on the curvy side (size 14) My photos are reasonably recent and yes they are of me and not of my sister,niece, friend or next door neibour. I would describe myself as more of a homely person more than a party animal,however I do like to let my hair down and dont own an anorak. Have been single just over 3 years now, mainly through choice. Whilst it is important to be attracted to someone, looks are not everything, its whats inside someones heart that matters and if they are a good person looks cannot replace someones kindness and personality. Cannot say ime really into loud bars where you cant hear what the other person is saying, prefer a quiet nice wine bar where you can have a relaxing evening.My home is important to me and i am a person that is clean, neat and tidy and hate clutter. WHY AM I HERE ?????? to meet the man of my dreams,BUT friends is good also. IS THAT POSSIBLE ? i dont have high expectations It will happen on here but maybe you could be the one to prove me wrong.

I have read some really funny profiles on first dates, one said, well we could meet briefly then if we dont like each other we can make a quick getaway lol.Well I am not as shallow as that, I believe its the person not what they look like So how about, chatting a little on here, maybe moving on to msn messenger, if you have a cam we could both switch it on, then maybe a couple of chats on the phone, then if we both feel we have something in common and are on the same wavelength as each other then we could have a drink and a chat and take it from there, how does that sound ???????????????????

Male
Age between 38 and 55
Must not be looking for Hang Out
Must not be looking for Other Relationship
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter
Must not be looking for Activity Partner
Must not do drugs
Must not smoke