I'm not a huge phone person once I get into a realtionship.I just enjoy the anticipation of speaking to someone that I don't want it to become tandom and expected.You know...keeping it fresh and unexpected.If I meet someone...I want to really get to know them.It's called dating.We did it in highschool.We wrote each other notes,called and talked on the phone once or twice a week,went to football games together,met each others friends and hung out,we kissed and made out but we took things slowly.We took the time to see if there were real sparks or not.I agree life is short but there is no need to rush good things...take the time to enjoy them.Seems like when I meet great guys they get in a hurry.I've grown accustomed to the quite.I'm content and happy but miss the romance...that butterflies in the stomache feeling of something new and fresh.I'm not looking to get married(been there done that).The main thing I am hoping to find is a best friend.Someone to get out and do things with.Someone that cares about me and I would care about them.I have a good job and can pay my own bills so I'm not looking for a sugardaddy but not looking to finacially take care of someone else either.****
I believe that a good friendship is the basis for any good relationship...so I am truely looking for a good friend.Someone I can call and go do something fun with.We could go camping,swimming,shoot some pool,hiking,fishing,a good movie,find a good hole in the wall to eat at,discovering new places to explore.Wouldn't really matter what we did as long as the company is good we would have a good time. Someone that I can call and say..."hey I'm bored let's find something to do!"I'm not looking for someone that has rules for us to go by because I don't have any rules for them.Someone that is upbeat(whiners not welcome),kind(to old people,pets,and kids),funny and goofy(if you can't cut up and play then we won't mesh well),considerate(everyone deserves respect),compassionate(shows there is a heart inside of you),passionate(not afraid to express your feelings),and still has dreams and aspirations(if you have nothing to strive for then what do you have)I'm not looking for my next love but would like to meet my last love.Just looking for a real good friendship to start out with then if something more happens thats a plus.If friendship is all we get from it then who knows...I may have a friend thats more suited for you and vise versa.Yes...I tend to take the path less traveled and think outside of the box!!
One guy ask me recently what I was looking for.I told him I could tell him more what I'm not looking for.
1)If you're afraid of spiders and snakes...just don't tell me and act manly and try to kill them anyway...I don't want someone more afraid of bugs than me.
2)Please don't feel like we have to talk everyday.Give me a chance to have something to tell you.We're not married or engaged...we're getting to know each other and no one wants to feel like anyone is keeping tabs on anyone.
3)I can't stand a complainer or negative person.I know the economy is bad but if you dwell on the bad things in life seems like there's a negative cloud around.
4)I am very imperfect...I make mistakes pretty regularly but I try to live and learn from them...I don't need someone pointing them out to me.If I can get past things so should you.
That might give you a little insight to who I am...maybe.

I live in the foothills of the mountains and would love to find someone to take me motorcycle riding.Maybe go to a cool car show.I heard there's a drive-in up my way somewhere...maybe we could find it!Find a good sandy spot on the river and go swimming.Rummage around an antique shop and find something that could bring us early retirement on Antiques Roadshow.A good concert.I always wanted to see a hockey game.It's only a first meeting but you might as well have a great time doing it.Add a new fun memory to your life.Or we could meet for coffee,dinner,or drinks,go for a walk,somewhere quite so we can talk and get to know each other.*************Also if you are married then please don't contact me!!!!!**************8