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June 2009
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Profession Nunya Business
Do you want children? Prefer Not To Say
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About Me
I'm not really able to go "OUT" on a date right now due to some problems that I am currently working on with my youngest daughter. It seems to be taking forever to improve but I'm patient. I tend to spend a lot of time at home lately because of this. I am only here looking for somebody that would like to take the time to actually get to know me a bit and become friends first. I'm certainly not wanting to jump into anything and I still need some personal space for now so that I can do what needs to be done. So, I don't really have the time to invest in a super serious relationship at the moment. Although, if it developed into something more over time it would be more than welcome. I am not implying that I'm out looking for a casual fling either. I just find it very difficult to be alone all the time and I'd like to find somebody that I can trust to spend some quality time with. Nothing in my life has ever come easy. I'm certainly not complaining though .... just making a point. I don't mind the extra effort that I have had to put into everything thus far. It comes through in my personality. It builds character if nothing else. I try very hard and I truly do appreciate and care about all the LITTLE things that many others typically overlook or dismiss. I would love to get back out there soon and live a little but this is the best I can do for now. Everything improves with time if it's worked on hard enough. My own situation included. I know what I want and I am putting forth the effort and working towards it. I really could use some company if you are a patient, decent type of person with integrity that likes kids even if they are not your own. I'm not looking for a replacement daddy for them. They DON'T have that sort role model in their lives but I do not expect that from anybody. They are MY responsibility and I can raise them myself. I'm also going to say that I am not a gold digger. I am happy for you if you have nice things but I'm not looking for a materialistic type of relationship. I've lost most of my belongings twice now due to failed relationships. So many greedy people out there that only know how to TAKE. A hug or kiss goes much further than a gift with me. :) I'd rather be poor and happy than rich, sad, and lonely any day. Hopefully this clarifies my intentions and reasons for being here. Why are YOU here? :) ****************************************************************************************************************
I'm a 40 year old woman with 2 beautiful little girls ages 7 and 4, I am 5' 2", and 100-105 lbs. with blond naturally curly hair and blue eyes. Blah-blah-blah! ;) You get the picture.
Every man has his own idea of what a PERFECT WOMAN is and what he see's as BEAUTIFUL. I know I'm not perfect or beautiful but my heart is in the right place and my intentions are good. So it seems to all boil down to one's own opinion and preference. I enjoy the simple pleasures and I'm not spoiled or high maintenance. In fact I'm quite practical.
I'm searching for a man that I can carry on a DECENT 2 WAY conversation with for a change. Haven't had much luck with that in the past. The mental connection is very important to me. I love to talk (as you can see) but I don't want to feel guilty about it or to have to hold it all in just to please the other person. Why bother? That just tells me they are not interested in knowing anything about me. I should be able to express myself freely without being stifled. We NEED to communicate and find out what we may have in common. We should be able to lose track of space and time when we are together. When you are with the RIGHT person ... it just happens without any effort. Enjoying each others company no matter what or where. The background just seems to vanish. A soul connection. I have actually experienced this before and long to have it back one day. Relationships are stronger and last much longer when they are friendship based. Friends with a sincere respect for one another as opposed to two people who's dating choices are based on PURE ATTRACTION.
Please don't get me wrong. Physical attraction is also important but that doesn't mean you have to be muscle bound or look like a model. I can't say I have a clear cut TYPE that I'm attracted to though. So please don't ask. You just have to be attractive to ME.
I'm really big on character traits. I know it sounds crazy but it is the little things that get my attention the most. Such as 2 different colored eyes , a scar, a birthmark, maybe even a chipped tooth. Just depends on the individual. It just gives you that something special that is YOU and only you!
I'm not a very big person so I tend to be mostly attracted to men that have an average, athletic, or thin build. I don't think that is a shallow thing to say since attraction is a natural thing and we can't change or control it just to be politically correct. We are all guilty of it to some degree. I'm very sorry if this offends anyone. I'm certainly not out to hurt feelings in any way. I take care of myself and hope you do too. :)
I'd rather not get too specific in the description of my SPECIAL SOMEBODY because he may not fall within certain set boundaries and then I'll possibly miss out on ever meeting him. In other words - I can't give a description of the perfect man for me because I have not yet met him and when I do ... it will no longer be necessary.
Everybody is looking for the same thing in life but most are not willing to put forth the time or effort it takes to attain this goal. I refuse to honk my own horn on or off this site in order to win anyone over. I can't sum up who I am as a person in a few paragraphs. Each person has their own ideals and admire different qualities in different people. Each person I meet brings out a different part of my personality. So I find it very difficult to explain what I'm really like or what I may be like with you. I hope this makes some sense to somebody. I am unique. Having said that ... please read the info below!
PLEASE READ THIS PART (at the very least)
I just wanted to mention that I have Rheumatoid Arthritis. There! I said it!! Anyone that may have any sort of problem with that type of imperfection should not contact me please. Everybody has a flaw of some sort. Mine just happens to be noticeable on the outside. lol Yes ... I know ... always a catch! Oh well. I DO eat right and take good care of myself though. I believe that I'm in better shape than most women my age. Still not satisfied? GO FISH!!  I find that the interest level drops upon hearing of this.
Imperfections are like belly buttons ... they are either IN or OUT! Be thankful that mine are out for you to see. Safer that way!! lol Could be worse.
First Date
Dinner is always nice (not BK drive thru) ... even if I cannot manage to swallow a single bite of food due to nerves. :) A few sips of wine may fix that problem. (sip-sip not glug-glug!)   BUT could also create a new one. No ... I kid .. I kid!! Please have a pic to share. You've seen me .. let me see you too. :) Only fair! :p Also .. if you smoke ... it is a problem due to my daughters asthma. Sorry. Do you really think you know me now? There is so much more to know and share. If you made it this far ... please continue ... chemistry is always a factor and the written word can be interpreted any way the reader so chooses to interpret it. Now ... do you really think you know ME? Let's find out. Merry Christmas!! :) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GPYN0T7DBtw Mail Settings (To message Another Mirage you MUST meet the following criteria.)
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