Why am I on a dating site?
Well .... I'd love to meet someone the old-fashioned way but I guess it wouldn't be called old-fashioned if everyone STILL did it that way now would it? So there you have it. :p

I should also mention the fact that I'm most certainly NOT desperate in any way shape or form. Being a single mom doesn't mean that I'm looking for somebody to take care of me and my children. I do have have self pride. We don't need anybody to save us. I hate the fact that I just had to say that.


I'm 39, have 2 little girls ages 6 and 2 1/2, I'm short (5' 2"), and slim (105 lbs.) with blonde naturally curly hair and blue eyes. Not sure if this matters to anyone out there but ..... I'm a German-Polish-Irish mixture (the recipe used to make me!).

On a more serious note. Every man has his own idea of what a "PERFECT WOMAN" is and what he sees as "BEAUTIFUL". I know I'm not perfect (far from it) but my heart is in the right place and my intentions are good. So it seems to all boils down to one's own opinion and preference. You know what they say about opinions!!! hehe Ahem .. sorry!!

I truly believe there is somebody out there for everybody. Even ME (hopefully). I may or may not ever find this person and if I don't I am fully prepared to spend the rest of my life ALONE .... but in the meantime I'll just keep . Speaking of fishing ... if you use money as a lure you may attract the wrong kind of fish (man-eater perhaps). I'm NOT one of them. It's better to put your heart on the line than your wallet. Okay - that was bad ... but true none-the-less.

Who or what am I looking for?
I'd love to meet a man that I can carry on a DECENT conversation with for a change. Haven't had much luck with that in the past. The mental connection is very important to me. Otherwise our night will be filled with my mindless babble just to fill in the uncomfortable silence. Gee ... how enjoyable would that be? Am I right? I love losing track of time and space. Get my drift?

Physical attraction is also important but that doesn't mean you have to look like a model or He-Man! I can't say I have a clear cut "type" that I'm attracted to.
Each person is special in their own way and has something unique to share. You just have to be attractive to ME.
I AM looking for a family oriented guy however. You do not neccessarily have to have children of your own but you must be able to accept the fact that I do have 2 kids that mean the world to ME. If you think it might bother you to be around my kids at some point in time then I may not be the right person for you.

I don't want to get too specific because my "SPECIAL SOMEBODY" may not fall within certain set boundaries and then I'll possibly miss out on ever meeting him. In other words - I can't give a description of the perfect man for me because I haven't met him yet and when I do ... the description will no longer be necessary. (Why do I sound so blond?)

One more tid-bit to add here. PLEASE READ THIS PART (at least)
I just wanted to mention that I have Rheumatoid Arthritis. There! I said it!! Anyone that may have any sort of problem with that type of imperfection should not contact me - Please. Everybody has a flaw of some sort. Mine just happens to be noticeable on the outside. lol

Imperfections are like belly buttons ... everybody has one and they are either IN or OUT! lol See what my brain is capable of when I'm bored? Danger!

This may not really be the expected description for this space but that depends on whether you judge your books by the cover or the content. So ... now it is time for me to close the book on a previous chapter in my life and flip ahead to see what happens in the next. I do look forward to a happy ending. (...and they lived happily ever after.)


Good luck to everybody out there and please ... do not send me hate mail if I fail to respond promptly. It might just mean I'm busy.

Still there? Ha! Oh go ahead and blink already ... it wasn't THAT bad!! I hope this gives a little insight into my personality if nothing else. If not ... there are plenty of OTHER fish in the sea .... GO FISH!!

First of all, I'm not one to rush into anything. So if you don't want to talk to me and get to know me first - please don't waste our time. I do have 2 kids to think about here. I will not meet up with just anyone and possibly put my little family at risk. Geez, I sure hope that doesn't sound super harsh but there are a lot of crazy folks out there ... I should know. I'm one of them! KIDDING!!

I'd like to have a first date in a place where we could talk and see each other easily without multiple distractions. Sooooooo, no loud dark bars (pretty please). That just isn't my style or taste. Dinner is always nice even if I cannot manage to swallow a single bite of food due to nerves. :) A few sips of wine may fix that problem. (sip-sip not glug-glug!) BUT could also create a new one. No ... I kid .. I kid!!

Male
Age between 28 and 45
Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex.
Must not be looking for Other Relationship
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter
Must not do drugs
Must not be married