Hi there.... Before we get to me and what I'm all about, and whom I may be looking for, I want to know some things about you.... Such as:

First of all - if you AREN'T over your last boyfriend, or relationship, PLEASE don't initiate one with me. If we are in the beginning stages of a union and you decide that I'm just not the one for you, by ALL means, PLEASE tell me THAT.

I am WELL aware that we all can't be everything to everyone, and that CERTAINLY includes me. But PLEASE don't come to me and don't use the "I'm just not ready", "the old boyfriend called and is coming back" or "I'm just not over him", or "I have feelings for him that I didn't think I did, and we're going to try again" lines on me - it is painful to me, and makes you look foolish and immature at best.....

How important are ROMANCE and PASSION to you? Are they merely words you toss around, or do these incredible words have TRUE, WONDERFUL, and POWERFUL meanings to you?

WHAT are you PASSIONATE about, and how are you ROMANTIC? I don't want to hear about "walks on the beach", or "sitting arm in arm on a star-lit night", or any of that meaningless stuff... I want to know that you HAVE a PASSION burning inside of you. I want to know that it's a bon-fire within you, and not a mere spark. Do you love like that? CAN you love like that? can you still love at all? do you love with a passion that few thought existed any more?

Is it important to you that he holds your hand? laughs with you? touches you? talks to you? kisses you? talks to you some more, and kisses you more? that he spoons with you, or you with him? and wakes you in the middle of the night, just to be close to you, or............? (Or do you decide you want your sleep more, regardless of his wants?)

Can you lose your train of thought when he looks at you, or into your eyes, or by something he says to you, that you might not have been expecting?

Are first and ALL impressions important to you when you date? Do you strive to put your best foot forward?? Do you feel it's important to spend a bit of time in the tub with a razor, and then put on a dress, or just as easy to put on pair of slacks, because "it's only a first date", or because "he won't notice", because I WILL notice.

When he kisses you good night, at your door, or at the side of the car, do you kiss him back for what seems an eternity, and because you are thoroughly enjoying it, or are you more concerned about who might see you, or that you might get chilly?

THAT is a bit of the romance and passion I seek in a woman and a partner. I am not here to date an endless number of women. I just want to find ONE very, VERY good one, regardless of WHERE she resides.

Ok - Is anyone still reading???? lol.....

I'm a 55 yrs young, 183 lb, blonde haired, blue eyed, single man looking to get to know you... I am an affable, intelligent, articulate, attractive, humorous, romantic, affectionate man, and a firm believer in "it takes two" to make this world a better place. And with that, what better "2" than a loving woman along side her loving man? The "2" exploring all that is to be seen, all that is to be enjoyed, and doing so independantly, but as a couple? Appreciating that which unfolds itself before us. Each of us seeing what we see, individually, but together.
I seek the unusual... Attractive, but not vain. Intelligent but not beligerant. Feminine, but not helpless. Proud, but not arrogant. Compassionate, learned, affectionate, loving, romantic, humorous. One who possesses those qualities which make her the envy of her peers, the subject of many desires, and the recipient of many invitations... but only accepts those few who understand and realize what she truly is. And most of all - the confidence to realize, accept and demand this from those who look to make her aquaintance.
As I have said, I'm 55 yrs young, blah, blah, blah...
I enjoy summer more than winter, football more than tennis, and perhaps golf above all other sport/recreational activities. I can cook a MEAN dinner, but also appreciate and understand what it means to be invited to another's home for dinner. I enjoy boating, golf, bike riding (either pedal or motor - I have both), Door County, Chicago, Cape Cod, Key Largo, Reno more than Vegas, and anchovies on pizza... Ok, ok - only on half, if you insist...
I dress in jeans, and Dockers most times, but can clean up in a suit and tie very nicely, thank you.
My roses are doing well, I had a bumper crop of tomatoes this summer, and I DO make lasagna from scratch.
I share my home - sometimes - with, when he chooses to honour me with his presence, my 19 yr old son, a 3 yr old - 140 lb NewFoundland dog, and a 4 month old, 5lb kitten.
My home may, at times, be messy, but not dirty. Cluttered, but not too much.. And always full of some activity. Whether the dog is chasing the cat, the cat is chasing the dog, the son is trying to keep his food from BOTH of them, or one of us is trying a new recipe on the other, or the Packers are making "hay" out of whomever the opponent is THIS week.
There.... This is enough for now, isn't it??????
Care to partake in some of this? Then, perhaps.... You should be writing, Dear....
I look forward to meeting you.
P.S..... OH and Yes.... GO WINGS...... With Osgood minding the store (Errr NET), the Stanely Cup should reside in Detroit for yet ANOTHER year... While the NFL IS all about the Green Bay Packers, the NHL is all about the DETROIT REDWINGS.... Need you even ASK ???? But for NOW....

For a first date, I prefer dinner over a "drink"/coffee meeting. A very nice restaurant, not the typical fast food, or semi-fast food type of place.. Perhaps a walk after dinner so that we may enjoy conversation, each other's company, and get to know one another. GO REDWINGS !!!!!!

Female
Age between 45 and 63
Must not be looking for Hang Out
Must not be looking for Talk/E-mail
Must not be looking for Other Relationship
Must not be looking for Friendship
Must not be looking for Activity Partner
Must not do drugs