I am 33 yrs old and live in elgin. I am a loan officer for residential and commercial real estate in illinois and absolutely luv what I do. My job allows me the free time for things i feel matter most in life....which is family, friends, and that special person! I am a Bears nut and bleed orange and blue....(yeah...a lil cubbie blue in there too) and luv goin to games whenever I can. I also enjoy getting out ... not only for a drink every now and then...but to squeeze in a round of golf or a couple sets of tennis as well. What i am looking for in a partner...someone who knows how to laugh, is honest, knows the importance of communication and trust, and lives life to the fullest.

A first date should be dinner and a movie.....NOT! ATTN LADIES.....anyone who mentions taking u out for a movie on a first date is a turd....drop it like its hott girls....trust me on this one...lol Seriously tho...a first date should be something where two people have the oppurtunity to talk....and get to know one another...it could be drinks....it could be coffee....or it could simple be a walk somewhere....the important thing here ...is doing something where u have the ability to talk.