I sometimes leave my internet on while i take care of my kids or do chores.So if i don't answer your email right away please be patient when waiting for a reply.:) BTW, I am pretty shy at 1st so if your interested in me then you will need to make the 1st move. NO INTIMATE ENCOUNTERSSSSSSSSSS!!! NO FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS!!!!!!!!! Not looking to "hang out", "other relationship" etc.I am not here to help you cheat on your wife, girlfriend etc either. In addition, i am not here to help anyone get their green card. Also, I am not interested in men old enough to be my father...GEEZ!((my mom would be 46 had she lived..God rest her soul...so at least younger than she would've been)) Maybe i should capitalize that last part. NO MARRIED MEN!!!!!!!!!! opps another aggravating thing...people that have pics but you can't make out what they look like...GGRRRRR. i have developed a taste for chocolate;)However I will not rule out any man based on that. OMG!!!!!! The 1st thing you say to someone should not be something like "you look horny"..that is a don't pass go..don't collect $200 way to get BLOCKED!

Friends and family would probably describe me as sweet(PLEASE DO NOT CONFUSE ME BEING SWEET FOR BEING SUBMISSIVE. THOSE TWO WORDS HAVE TOTALLY DIFFERENT MEANINGS), caring, compassionate, trustworthy and a bit of a goof a times. My children are my TOP priority and the light of my life. i grew up in the south and yes i still have my accent even after being up here for almost 9 years. I have lived in small towns all my life. Also I am NOT money hungry...i shop at Wal-Mart, Aldi's, and Goodwill the most. i have not stepped into a mall in years except when I had to lead my dad to one because he was meeting a date there. I tend to be quiet until i get to know someone or something about them makes me open up right away. I like to read, take walks(weather permitting) especially in nature settings like the woods or by a river, tv/movies...i used to collect disney movies..TV i enjoy medical based shows such as Trauma Real Life in the ER, comedies ,America's Funniest Home Videos or whatever else tickles my fancy. I have a swing in my yard that i love to sit in and read or just listen to the sounds of nature. I enjoy going to amusement parks especially the thrill rides. I love animals. i have three small dogs, which means you'll need to at least be able to put up with animals being around.. I DO NOT like country music on the whole. I am not into redneck guys. I am a woman with a lot of love to give.

I am also what some men may call fat ... others may call me thick but i am definitely not skinny.


I like honesty, loyalty, compassion, understanding, an ability not to spend money foolishly/selfishly in men.It would also help if your actions matched the words you speak. NON-smoking,MINIMAL drinking is good.

"People are like stained-glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in, their true beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within"

this is not a description of my ideal first date.... Again fellas HONESTY is very important to me!! FELLAS PLEASE FEEL FREE TO WRITE ME:)


random thoughts..
As a teenager I would sit and listen to my dad about his day at work while he had coffee and i had cappucino so I've always been a good listener:)

If you want to ask me specific questions please feel free to ask me:)

Yes, i hear...i wish you lived closer or similar statements all the time...sigh!i have made a very good friend that lives clear across the country..figures..l

WONDERING WHY YOU FELLAS DON'T WRITE ME????Is it you think I'm out of your league or you are out of my league????


SMILE!:)