hi, I want to enjoy life. I like working with,listening to, and trying to help patients and people. I want a both phyically and emotionally relationship with someone.It took awhile to get over being married to someone for a long time-why use someone else for my selfishnesss. why play and tease with someone else feelings,that would be stupid and mean. A relationship is what all of us usually want as we"grow up". This is what the songs, and movies, tv,books,poetry,the preaching from the pulpit and from our parents and that our dreams are about--both as indivuduals and as parents.I do want a long term relationship.But it starts with the first date or meeting.What do I like to do-- almost anything.I am curious. I keep asking questions to learn and to share about you. I hope you can say more about yourself than "you like motherhood,small children and Christmas." I am really interested in you. You are interesting and unique. I do not have a prison record. I am not a priest.I like to hang out with women much more than men.You are cutier. I am a Wellness Consultant and a Doctor of Chiropractic.I keep patient's body working with its structural and function,and look at toxicity in the body and imbalances.I treat patients with kinesiology to work with acute and chronic physical and extremities complaintes, I do sport medicine. I work with an orthopedic,which is unusual.The excuse "you are too old and live with it", does not make sense to me--try anything".You are too young(old is 80).I do procrastinate too much.I have 2 boys--no problems--they are amazing,ages 22 and 20, the oldest graduated in June from UCI with a double major.He moved out and has a job!! My youngest son goes to pepperdines and is in shanghai this semester.I am proud of both. I like to read,go to barnes and noble,laugh,cuddle, the ocean, very optimist,spontaneous,play tennis, biking,theater,arttennis,hike,dance, simple things,stay outdoors,health,movies, going to corona del mar or laguna every sunday early. It keeps me balanced.I have Lakers season tickets for 24 years They are in the the first row, but the top tier,close to God. It is really the only sport I really watch. I try to find so many other things to do on sundays besides stay home and watch TV.I do enjoy life,learning,and do relaxing things with others,I enjoy doing things spontaneously-keeps us thinking and feeling. I try to accept you for who are and who you will be. I hope you accept me for who I am-that only seems fair. This is what a "real best friend",one who will accept each other and be honest to one another and not be afraid to talk and give to each other.I believe in no more secrets.I am learning. This is what a true friend and a true love is.This is what love is--giving and accepting each other --losing that ego and that pride and that fear and insecurity.We all need to "feel". I do function well on my own, but I miss a best friend.It is silly to play games.
I try to stay in shape--I do nordic track 3-7 time a week to protect my knees.I want to look beter. I am 5'9', brown hair with gray in it, I weigh 201 but I am losing it and trying to firm up.I am not bad looking, but not as good looking as most women.They all look better. I love to laugh and maybe a bit sarcastic. I want to travel on short trips. I have to get out more and try now(this is why I was told to join this club).I work around my house and very large yard. I have a koi fish pond in the house-it came with the house. It is easy to care for. I have 2 wheaton terriers. I do work hard if I want something or someone who I feel is worth it. I do plan for the future- but it is the present that I need to work on. I respect all life.It is interesting to observe that we come into this world alone.But we spend so much time and effort trying to find a lifetime partner. It is my purpose to find someone to complete this journey with together ,who is fun and loving and giving and understanding. I do not want someone to have a bad date with me--why lie. Have ever you ever been on a bad date? This why I have made this profile a little longer than 3 lines-You are worth it to me.It is a start.Sorry it maybe too long,but I awant to know about me. any questions about me. your turn.

keep it simple- go barnes and noble,Balboa island,or a place to sit or walk around or even go to a movie or watch the nba playoff.no demands or hassels,whatever make you comfortable,I want a where we can talk ,learn and listen about each other. I do not mind driving. I am optomistic and spontaneous.Whatever is comfortable for you-but I can make decision,no big deal. But I do listen.I want to enjoy the date and you. Just a note about how I feel about what one woman who wrote to me about the first date-- how can someone hope for a "long term relationship" on the first date- love grows,it is a giving up of one's" self, not keep taking-that is what you did in high school when you wanted date best looking person.-Where is he or she now?-probably unhappy because the looks will change. The person will change too.Do you want to change that person or are you going to accept him or her for who they really are? Long term relationship will take longer than what happens on the first date--try to have fun and be yourself--less hassles--I try not to lie or be afraid.I want to enjoy,think and feel good on the first or possibly even our last date. but be hopeful that many more dates will happen. We tried to know each other...most people do not and give up even before talking.so sad. It is missed opporunity. I do not want you to have a bad date(did you ever have one?)This is just a little part of who I am. what about you.