In search of my best friend. Someone I can be myself with, and vise versa.I want a nice guy with an edge. What does that mean? To me it means someone who is witty, has a personality but isn't full of himself. No shady people PLEASE!! I'm 34 and looking for something a bit more "serious." Of course it all starts with friendship. I am not a bitter woman, but if you know your an A$$hole don't bother with me. I wear my heart on my sleeve and expect the same. I'm too old and wise for games. Don't waste my time or yours. I also want to make it clear, I am Not into bs or drama. I believe in keeping it simple and having fun and making the most of what life has to offer. I love to laugh and hope you do also. As far as playing with peoples emotions or hearts,it is not what I am about as a woman. I'm extremely honest, but don't believe in hurting feelings, treat those the way you want to be treated. On a side note, you know how some people post pics up of their buds? Is it wrong to think one of the buds is hot? If not how does one approach this issue??

How lame is this question? A movie is a no go because you can't have a good conversation during a movie. Now a movie may be a positive if you don't click with the person on any level and don't want to be rude. Coffee is a good option, but make sure you have mints afterwards, then again if there is no attraction, then the bad coffee breath may work in your favor. Going to a bar is good if you really have no interest in what the other is saying and you just want to get them or yourself drunk to pass the time. With that said, why not just let the cards fall and see what happens.