My name is Shane and I am an Irish/Italian SWM from the Northern NJ area who can be a little reserved at first, but often wear my heart on my sleeve. I love to laugh and have a good time also I am known for my quirky/ crazy personality. I am also very spontaneous for instance I have no problems with a short notice vacation or a road trip to New England for a snowboarding trip or just a getaway for the weekend, I am not expecting someone who knows how to ski or snowboard but if you do that would be great or I could possibly teach you. The reason I am doing this is because I feel that I can not meet the type of girl that I want to be with in places like bars. I am not overly picky; I just feel that a person with a warm down to earth personality is the key to a good relationship, I'm sorry if I offend anybody but finding this type of person in a bar is a rare thing and beside, I am not really into the bar scene that much anyway. I would like to meet someone that appreciates a good relationship and is looking to settle down. Anyway about what I do: I have a computer related career and I really love my job, I like the shore, kayaking, camping, snowboarding, movies, exercise, amusement parks traveling and dining out. If you like what you see and you want to get to know me better, I'm looking foward to meeting you. The woman that I feel would be my ideal match is down to earth, compassionate, has family values, the understanding type, open-minded just like myself.

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For the first date, I feel it is usually best to keep it something simple like a conversation over coffee.