Profession
lic.massage therapist; cert.lymphedema therapist
Do you want children?
Does not want children
Do you have children?
All my kids are over 18
About Me
I'm indescribable (smile), No, really; I am truly unique and can not be categorized or put into any one box. I've always felt at ease in a variety of venues with many different types of people. I live equally in my head and in my body. As the headline proclaims, I'm smart and sexy -also funny- and I'm looking for a smart, sexy and funny man. I've been dating almost exclusively younger men (and not because I pursued them!) and am still open to that but would love to give someone my age or older a chance - lol. I have a huge heart with a lot of love to give to the right man, but I won't know who that is until we become great friends first. I am sincere and honest and play no games and have no patience for those who do. Very independent = I don't need a man; I desire one! Oh, btw; a lot of you say you give great massages, but I'm actually licensed to give them!
I'm looking for a man that can be macho and sexy as hell but still sensitive and vulnerable. And most importantly: capable of, and comfortable with,honestly expressing his thoughts and emotions. Am I crazy? Does he, do you, exist? Someone like me (please see above). Also a huge plus if you like jazz and latin dancing and you love to cook. I prefer tall men, muscular (but not muscle bound) and better a few extra pounds (if worn well and actually only a few) than too skinny. As I indicated, I do not smoke, would really prefer if you didn't, but would not discount a good man who smokes occasionally.
All my pics are recent-Spring and Summer '07-so please have recent pics, too!
Also, if you're in shape, your age probably won't matter, but lying about it(up or down)absolutely does!
First Date
My ideal first date would probably be breaking bread in a relaxed setting that was not too noisy and not too quiet, so as to facilitate easy conversation. Weather permitting, it would be lovely to eat outdoors and follow the meal with a stroll (holding hands down a moonlit beach, of course lol).
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