Updated Nov 15, 2009: I'm going bow out of the dating game for now, on the advice of a friend, I'm just not ready yet based on recent experiences, I still have some stuff to work out.

I've been compared to Lloyd from the movie Say Anything and also the main character from the movie/book High Fidelity. I guess that's makes me a hopeless romantic or something right?..haha..naw I'll be fine. I do like to make mix cds' when I've fallen in love with someone so you could say I'm looking for my mixtape queen. I'd like to find someone that has similar interests in the things I like to do. I'm into a lot of different kinds of music..I cut my teeth on hardcore and punk rock music back in the day, still listen to a lot of that now but I also prefer indie, folk, jazz, funk, electro, etc. I collect vinyl records also. I've been djing in local bars off and on going on three years now, I'm easily accessible there. I've really gotten into softball the past couple of years, I manage/play on a co-ed team..we play league during the week and tournaments just about every other weekends..we could always use more females for our team. Yes, that is my daughter in the pictures, she is now 3 and is a total daddy's girl and comes first in any relationship..I am NOT looking for someone to be her mother..I have joint custody with my ex-wife so I get her every other weekend and some weekdays.

Shamless self-promo: Me and another dude will be starting up a dj night every Wednesday at 37th and Zen..you can come out and hear some good tunes or try your hand at djing. It's a good way to meet people. :)

I'd like to get to know the person, doing something out of the ordinary. I can be shy at first but after getting to know someone I like to pick their brain a little for intellect.