Does anyone else find describing yourself, and what you want to be difficult? Does anyone really know what they want? I feel like generically typing “If you like pina coladas”, or something.
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update 06/19/08
I am working towards being able to do what I want when I want. I mean travel, and taking in the world. I'm not there yet, but it would be nice to have someone supportive and positive to be around with similar goals or desires. I love kids, and hope to have a litter someday, but it's hard to globe trot with little ones. :)
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Everything below I wrote in a more serious mood than I am now, I guess I still mean it but I’m adding this insert and shirtless pic to see who actually reads these things. I’m not expecting to fall deeply in love on the first date with anyone. I just want an end to the mundane, and for someone to help shake me out of my safety bubble. I’m interested in people who actually want to meet, and get to know each other with genuine conversation rather than texts and emails. That’s my biggest gripe with this “online dating” thing is that no one seems to take the time to get to know anyone. I’m a REAL PERSON!! I smile, I laugh, I have quirks and I’m interested in other peoples quirks. That’s chemistry, being able to sit next to someone and communicate. What’s the worst that could happen? Hate each other, love each other, like each other and become fast friends, at least it wouldn’t be so dam boring.
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I’m an easy person to be around but a hard person to know. Even though intimacy is something that I crave I am unproductively closed off. I’ve been relationshipaphobic for about 4 years now, ever since I moved to KC. I finally feel ready to let down my guard and give way to interactions that facilitate actual sustenance.
I’m looking for someone who can challenge and inspire me. I’m looking for a deep symbiotic friendship to develop into something so good that only tears could describe it. Someone with like interest would be great, travel ambition, appreciation of a good coctail and dinner with friends, but differences are also what make life interesting. Honesty, affinity towards love, and desire for family, if you have those traits, then quite possibly any differences could just work themselves out
First date??? I’m open to just about anything. It’s been so long since I’ve been on an actual date that it could be skydiving and I’d still be excited to go. I think that I’m particular to dates that are conducive for talking and getting to know each other. i.e. dinner, drinks, coffee.. But movies are cool to if you happen to be shy and would just like to see if it’s possible to feel comfortable around someone new.. Dating is such a daunting task, I’d like to just hang out and get to know each other
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