Well, I thought I found a fish with some serious potential, but it appears he didn't feel the same way as I did. (such is life) Oh well, I had to cut line and move on, so I am back looking for my special fish. If you were one of the ones I didn't respond to, it may have been due to my infatuation with him. I am a one-man woman by nature and have a tendency to blow off everyone else when I meet someone I really like, but it bites me in the ass sometimes. So, hit me again - I may be interested.

I am looking for a single man who is honest and open to a somewhat unconventional relationship. I am NOT looking for a husband, but would like a boyfriend/companion with whom I could share my time, thoughts, and adventures. I am a single, professional female who doesn't get into drama, liars, or married men. I am looking for someone intelligent, articulate, and between the ages of 30 and 50. I do not have children of my own, but love them, and do not mind a man who does. To describe what I am looking for, it will be easier to describe myself as I am looking for a man who is similar to me.

I am a free thinker who enjoys documentaries, non-fiction books, and a good discussion about the origins of the universe. I own my own home, earned my college degree, have a career I adore, am self-sufficient and very independent. I do not "need" a man, but I do want a companion with whom I can share my thoughts, my interests, and yes….. dare I say it........ even my bed!

I am spiritual, but not religious... open-minded, but not promiscuous... adventurous, but not stupid... spontaneous, but not reckless. I work full-time, volunteer quite a bit for a couple of non-profit organizations, and at times have a pretty hectic schedule. To give you an idea of my personality, I am a girl who would be equally happy receiving a gift of sexy lace lingerie or a compound miter saw, either one. I am not a “high-maintenance” woman, but am not "butch" either. I do wear make-up; just not a lot. I do like a guy who will ‘take charge’; but he has to let me have a turn sometimes. I do like to get dressed up; I just don’t take two hours to do it.

I am a true animal lover, ride my Harley most every where I go, feel at home in the garden getting dirty, and feel just as comfortable dressed up for a night at the symphony. I am interested in politics, current events, scientific discovery, metaphysics, and gardening. I love to snuggle, flirt, and play. I am honest, assertive, and fairly direct, so I sometimes turn off certain types of men. You must be confident, intelligent, and respectful to date me. I am not the least bit pretentious and not the least bit interested in anyone else’s arrogance either. I am primarily attracted to a man's mind and personality, not his physical characteristics nor his net worth.

Oh, an... I am not for sale. Obviously, some men need that spelled out, so I thought I would go ahead and spell that out at this point. If you like me, it is this simple... treat me as an equal, show me some respect, ALWAYS be honest, be true to yourself, and once I am interested in you – just kiss and touch me often. It isn’t that difficult or expensive to win me over. If you are fun, intelligent, honest, interesting, affectionate, and treat me right – you cannot lose! Pretty damn simple… right??? NOT!!!!!!!!! LMAO

LIKES: reading, traveling, hiking, fishing, swimming, boating, spicy food, home-made bread, seafood, margaritas, eccentric people, dogs, kids, thunderstorms, motorcycles, satire, psychological thrillers, documentaries, science, art, live performances, geeks, nerds, Halloween, loud music (rock, jazz, metal, classical, R&B)

DISLIKES: watching sports on TV, cops, soap operas, country music, karaoke, sushi, pickled beets, anchovies, brussels sprouts, gin, scotch, over-using the word ain’t, apathy, bigots, racists, religious fundamentalists, alcoholics, misogynists, and Christmas… yes, you read right – I hate Christmas.

Think you are up for the challenge?

Go for a long long long ride through the mountains on our bikes and perhaps pull over for a picnic lunch at a scenic spot.

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