There is a country song that says size matters and they aren’t talking about what you may think. They are talking about the size, length & regularity of kisses, touches, time spent together, looks and love. I'm looking for a sexy lady who will become my friend and confidant to date a couple of times a week or take a weekend getaway and maybe grow into something more? I take care of myself and don't need a caretaker. I like action & drama movies and science fiction if it isn't to weird, a good book and quiet evenings. I like dogs & I am allergic to cats. If you let your dog lick your face or have an indoor cat please pass me by. I enjoy walks on the beach, picnics in the redwoods and a fast car on a country road. I like gardening and growing things. I don't ski or play a musical instrument although I would like to do both. I do enjoy both the water and the snow. I have gone snorkeling and para-sailing and want to do more of it. I want to go kayaking and white water rafting. I enjoy the Sacramento Kings but don't play anymore myself. I enjoy candle light dinners and soft music but I also like to rock out and really enjoy the oldies and live music. I lead a healthy lifestyle and have been vegetarian for 30 yrs. I try to work out and keep in shape. I work at a group home for at risk teen boys and have an online business on the side. I don't drink coffee and I think Starbucks is a waste of money. I dress well, have my head shaved and my beard trimmed, drive a guzzler, brush my teeth and use breath mints and gum. I shower regularly, wear deodorant, got along with my mom and think my daughter is my most precious thing in my life. I am a good listener and my friends often come to me for counsel and feedback. There is so much more about me that I can't fit in here, just ask me.

I like an honest, sexy woman with a sense of humor who likes to keep fit but isn't a nut about it. I enjoy a woman who is comfortable with who she is and can be spontaneous in any setting and is not looking to be rescued. Tall (5'8" or above)is good but not mandatory. Chemistry is important and I am a very visual guy so I like a lady with good skin who takes pride in how she looks, is height/weight proportionate, doesn't take forever to get ready to go out and can get some place on time. I like a lady who exercises by walking, jogging or uses machines and then lifts a little to keep toned. I like a lady who likes to dress up to go out but also can do jeans and go camping, pee in the bushes, work in the garden or wash the car. I like a lady who wears dresses and high heels, has great legs and likes to tempt me with that tight sweater and a come hither look in her eye from across a crowded room or at home in front of a blazing fire. A positive outlook/glass half full and a can do attitude is nice. I know that this sounds like I am some kind of selfish, arrogant jerk, but my friends say I am a nice guy. I have had a profile on various paid sites for a while and have met some great ladies, just not "the one". I have also communicated for a time and then met some only to find out that their pictures were 10 yrs. old and 30 pounds light. I don't want to waste your time or mine if you don't think how I feel is important and are not willing to tell the truth. When you put your pics up, I am not interested in your dog or the London Bridge or anything else unless you are in the picture. I figure that the best way to do it is to state it up front. Don't lie in your profile and have recent photos that really show what you look like with at least one full body shot. Honesty is the best policy so you don't have to remember what you said or lie again to cover your butt. Let me know if you think you can handle it. PS: If you are a Barbie doll or have store bought boobs don't bother me. I like the real thing.

First dates are supposed to be a chance for both parties to decide if there is enough chemistry to warrant further action. We will talk and decide where is a good place. Starbucks, Baskin Robbins, maybe a walk in the park or on the beach.