Hi! Thanks for stopping by! I'm interested in meeting new persons for friendship/dating. I've tried these dating sites for a while now. I'm not sure I have this figured out. How are you supposed to tell from reading these profiles, if you are 'attracted' to someone? How are you supposed to know if you would like to spend a couple of hours meeting someone? I have met several people but, I have not yet ever 'felt' anything after the first meeting. It takes me 3-4 get togethers to see if that person is someone that I think I would have fun with. Perhaps I am just too slow. Do any of you feel that way? I am not looking for one night stands. I'm not that kind of person. I am looking for someone who I can treat with respect and in return receive respect. Not looking for a game player. Not into head games. What I would like to have in life again is someone to care for and for "that touch" which I just can't live without. So, if you are the real deal and would enjoy the company of someone with a kind, positive attitude and high standards, I would love to hear from you!

I don't think we should count the first time that we meet as a first date. That's a meet and great. On a first date, I would enjoy a quiet, intimate dinner in CWE, with a glass or two of some great wine! I'd like to discuss what it is the other person is looking for in a relationship, and listen to him tell me what makes him happy. I'd sit and look into his eyes and try to figure out his true being! I'd end the date with a hug. I never kiss on the first date.....but would leave him wondering what a first kiss with me would be like.