Hi Ladies! Thanks for taking the time to check out my profile.

I’ve been perusing these singles ads now for a couple of months. I posted this profile and wrote a short description of what it was I was looking for. But I’ve decided it was time to put a little thought into this and see if I couldn’t get some better results. Not necessarily more results, but better ones. So this will more than likely end up being pretty long. But you should have a pretty good idea of who I am, and what I’m about. So if you make it to the end and decide you might be interested, please don’t hesitate to let me know!

It’s actually pretty amazing how many of the profiles look the same when it comes to what you girls are looking for. The funny thing is, as I read through the majority of them I say to myself…”that’s me”… yeah, I think that too”… “I believe that”… etc., etc.

I’m going to do this trying to NOT come off as full of myself, or arrogant in any way. Because I’m really not. But believe it or not, there ARE some really good guys left. I’m one of them. And I know some more that are too. (Although many of them are married…lol) .

It’s really a shame reading through your profiles and finding so many of you that have been burned, lied to, cheated on, disrespected, abused, used, played games with (not Monopoly, or poker), deceived or any other of the litany of bad things that I’ve read happens all to frequently. Evidently, more frequently than I ever expected. I know there are guys like that out there. I’ve known quite a few, although I don’t hang out with them because quite frankly, I don’t care for that kind of thing. I really am sorry so many of you seem to have had these bad experiences, but I really don’t want to pay that debt that I didn’t incur. So, if you’re going into any of this with that fear dictating your actions or “emotional availability” it’d probably be best that you just pass me by.

I am, so it would seem, one of the few truly “old fashioned” guys left on the planet…lol. I actually have morals and values that I try to live my life by. My parents raised me right. I have respect for everyone, at least until they give me reason not to. Especially women. Chivalry is not dead. I believe women (most of them…lol) deserve a different kind of respect than “one of the guys”. I will open the door for you. I will wait for you to be seated when we go out to dinner, even help you with your chair. I will walk beside you, not in front of you (unless of course I’m clearing us a path through the crowd when the concert or football game let’s out. And then, I’ll be holding your hand guiding you through the holes I made…lol). We’ll decide where to go, or what to do together (most times…every now and then, after I get to know what you like I might want to pull off a surprise). I do these things, not to impress you, or anybody else, but because that’s the way it’s supposed to be.

I’m looking for the fabled “friends first” situation. Although, I’ll be the first to admit I am a very affectionate, touchy feely huggy kissy type of guy. With that said though, I won’t be looking to “get in your pants”. Remember, I’m the old fashioned guy. As much as my hormones might think otherwise, I think that sex is something reserved for a later, higher, and especially, monogamous relationship. And as for as I’m concerned, morals trump hormones every time. This is not to say that I am not hopeful to come across the woman that all the pieces to the puzzle come together and we get to that point. That is the ultimate goal for all of us isn’t it?

Chemistry, as much as some would like to deny it, is always important, at least with regard to a romantic relationship. Either it’s there, or it isn’t. It isn’t anybodies “fault” if it’s not. Physical attraction is part of the chemistry. So if it’s not there, just say so. It’ll be OK. And it wouldn’t preclude us from being friends. At least not for me. Friends first remember? The rest will come if it’s meant to. By the way, friends, by my definition, call each other up to see how they are. Are interested to know what’s going on. Invite each other to do things together. Care about whether one another is happy or not. Enjoy each others company, and that of their other friends (well, most of them anyway…lol).

But back to the physical attraction thing… Whether we choose to admit it to others or not, we all have our “type”. Some are more locked in to a “type” than others. But we all have our “perfect world” preferences. I know I’m not the worlds most attractive guy. But I don’t think I’m the least attractive either. I’m no Brad Pitt, or Tom Cruise. Maybe a level of Sean Connery though? With whiter hair? You’ll have to judge for yourself…lol.

As for my “type”? I like a woman who “fits” me. Being a huggy kissy kind of guy, there seems to be this spot where I don’t fit real well. I haven’t put my finger on it, but I usually like to either reach down, or up to hug my girl. It just seems like there is this spot with some girls where our arms kinda get crossed up and it just doesn’t “fit”…lol. Ya gotta know what I mean. She should be able to figure out how to snuggle up to me with my arm around her and her head on my chest snuggled up tight whether at the movie theatre or on the couch at home watching movies. And, by the way, it’s not a deal breaker. It might just be something we have to figure out. Same goes for kissing, there just seems to be that certain height difference either way where we just can’t seem to get our heads turned just the right way sometimes. Something else we’ll have to figure out. Of course, figuring it out can usually be a lot of fun anyway! I like to hold hands a lot, and put my arm around my girl every chance I get just to let her know I like to touch her, and be touched by her. When the chemistry is there, it all seems to just happen naturally. Once we’ve decided that we are a “thing” I really enjoy those PDAs” (public displays of affection) Simply put, I want everyone around us to know how we feel about each other. Within reason of course. We won’t be making out in the middle of a group with children, or old people. In particular, our parents. But it’s nice when by a simple touch we both know we want to…lol Back to my “type”… I like long hair over short hair. Girls with hair down to their butt usually get my attention from across the room. But again, it’s not a deal breaker. I like dark hair over light. But of course, I’ve known many very attractive blondes. I like blue or green eyes over brown, but again, I’ve seen some very sexy deep brown eyes.

I think that no matter what type of hair, or eyes you have, the most defining attribute is a genuine, big happy smile. You know the ones… the ones where your whole face and eyes light up. That kind of smile will get me every time. Especially if I have something to do with producing it. But even if I didn’t, I still love to see my girl friends and my “girlfriend” smile.

I like a woman who has a little meat on her bones. I’m not usually attracted to really skinny girls. I’m always afraid I’ll break them when I hug them. And I do like to hug. A few extra pounds doesn’t really bother me. Heck, I’ve got them, and I have a certain limit that when I get there, I do something to get my size back down to something I’m more comfortable with. But it is nice to have someone with something to hold on to. And I’ll tell you the truth, like most guys, I am truly appreciative of a nice butt and a nice chest. I am male after all. So I’d be lying if I said otherwise. Guess that makes me a “tits and ass man” doesn’t it? Guilty as charged. But I do prefer they be all natural if at all possible…lol. Mine are…lol. I guess I am like a lot of guys in some ways…but at least I admit it!

What I like to do… Well, first I have to explain that through a series of circumstances that I wish I could say were beyond my control (they weren’t, I just made a bunch of bad decisions and allowed it to happen), I’ve allowed myself to become very introverted and as such, I don’t have a ton of friends down here anymore. I’d like to change that. Maybe you can help? I very much enjoy live music. Most any kind, from a local band at Carlie’s to a national act at the Ford Amphitheatre. I also like live sports. Bucs football in particular. But live racing at the local drag strips is always good too! I even like live musical performances at places like the Ruth Eckerd hall, or Blue Man Group at Universal. Hallowscream at Busch Gardens, and Halloween Horror nights at Universal are great too. In fact any of those places during the day when we can ride the roller coasters is awesome! You do ride the roller coasters don’t you?? And the water rides at Busch Gardens too. Nothing better than an instant wet t-shirt contest…lol.

I don’t usually do the bar scene, but a night of throwing darts and shooting pool is always good with friends. Bowling is fun too. A day doing the putt putt golf thing is fun, especially when accompanied by some go kart racing and/or batting cages with it. I love to take my girl to the movies, as long as she snuggles in. Snuggling on the couch watching movies at home is great too. Or a night of cards, Uno, Poker, Monopoly, or even chess if your up to it. I’ll be glad to cook us a nice dinner followed by any of those things. I’m told I’m a pretty good cook. I like my cooking at least…lol

Well, it seems I've run out of room for the last few paragraphs. Email me and I'll send them to you to finish this up! Take care! Tim

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