I hate going to bed alone with nobody there to wrap my arms around as we doze off together. It's one of the things I mention a lot, because it's something I long for, and when you're single, you're not getting that kind of intimacy.

Ultimately, I'm looking for somebody to share my life with, and make memories with; like walking on the beach or taking pictures, laughing, and having a good time. My parents have been together for over 40 years, and it's hard to find something that will last that long, nowadays.

And of course, sex would have to be passionate. Hands all over the place, lips locked together, bodies against each other. That's when sex is at it's best; especially if this is somebody you're in love with, but I'm also looking for intimacy that doesn't always lead to sex, like just relaxing on the couch at night with my girl with my arm down her side, and her head on my lap. I'm looking for that level of intimacy, and bond with somebody; an ever-lasting soulmate if you will. Somebody that's going to be uplifting, and supportive, and who's going to be there when times get rough. Somebody you can count on, basically.

Basically, what I'm looking for in a girl is someone that's going to accept me for who I am, somebody I can just be myself around, and not have to worry about them judging me, negatively or poorly.

I've been single for a while now, and one of the positive things that came from it is, I have to say, is it's made me realize the value of having somebody there in my life, since I haven't had somebody there for a while. It's like the old saying goes, "You don't miss it until it's gone." and that's very true.

I often picture myself on my back in bed with my girl across me looking up at me with a slight smile as I do the same. It's a heart connection like this, that you know there's a strong bond between you two. That's what I want. I want to have a strong heart connection with someone. I want to be in love, and I want her to be in love with me.