First off: (If you are interested and just lurk on here and play message tag, Please Do Not Waste My Time!!! I am Definitely Not Looking For Sex! I Don't Want To Be Your First Chocolate Girl That You Get With On Your "To Do List". I Will Not Be Your Rebound Girl Or NSA Type of Deal. So Basically I'm Not Interested In Men That Have A Girlfriend, Wife, Or Just Separated."

Also, to some of the black guys that keep sending me rude messages, grow up. I have a preference and it's not you!!! You don't see me harassing you. I could care less what type of girl you're into, good luck on your search. An to the one guy that said, that "since I don't like black men that I must be Gay!" No I'm not gay I'm just not interested in you.


Who I am:
I am a 27 year old educated,plus size woman. No, I am not just a little thick or chubby I'm a big girl. I don't plan on being like this forever but in the meantime...Losing weight and getting tone would be a aspiration in the future. If you can't see yourself in public,being friends or dating a big girl then I'm not the one for you.

If you are weak minded and don't have a backbone this will not work.

I'm looking for someone to get to know, talk to, become friends with and go from there. If after I take the time to message you and you blow me off I'm not going to cry about it. I am A wonderful and caring person. But if you piss me off, you better be prepared. I don't forgive Easily. Also if you can't handle a woman that speaks her mind than please move on.

What you see is what you get. I have never been outside of the US and would love to travel someday. Especially TO GERMANY I want to learn the language so bad. Where are all the HOT German guys in WA??! Perhaps you could be my private tutor "winks"


types of men (not boys)I'm interested in:

Please do not contact me if you are going to be rude. I am not interested in men that do drugs/hangs out with druggies etc.I don't want to meet somebody that is controlling. I am not interested in men that have kid(s)I don't care even if they don't live with you. I just don't want to deal with Baby Mama Drama. I love A guy that loves music and movies and doesn't have problems being seen with someone of another race ....Ok now that I have that out the way. "smiles"

PS
no picture then please don't bother to contact me I am showing my picture it is only fair that you do the same

So drop me a line if you are still interested if not well GOOD LUCK WITH YOUR SEARCH...

open for discussion