Winsome...."Cheerful; merry; gay; light-hearted."
wants
Witty...."intelligent, amusingly or ingeniously clever in conception or execution"
Wonderful...."exciting, marvelous, astonishing, unusually good, admirable"

I do like to go places and do things with other people...spur of the minute....invite me!!! and I will probably go!!I enjoy the outdoors, I love going to plays and movies and I enjoy reading.
I am looking for a partner and/or friend who is bright and can share their understanding of the world as well as enjoy discussing important issues. Are you someone who likes to talk and enjoys the humorous side of life, who has a passion for music, literature, drama, art either as a spectator or participant. Are you tolerant and able to hear and appreciate divergent viewpoints? Can you adapt to life's surprises? It is highly unlikely that you got to this point if you couldn't....
The most important quality that I am looking for in another person is someone who wants to spend time. Time to talk, time to share space, time to go places and do things within reason, of course....time alone can be a treasure....
Now that I have been out with a few of the "fishermen" on this site, I think I know more what I am looking for....
I am looking for someone who is physically fit...a few extra pounds doesn't bother me if it doesn't keep you from being able to do things or create a lack of desire to be active. I changed my body type from average to athletic because that is what men tell me I am...makes sense if I want someone who is fit, too....
Something else I have discovered so far is that there are some that expect immediate committment...no wasting any time and others that after three months, you still aren't sure if they will call again...(that would be "afraid to commit")I really am looking for someone inbetween....LOL....
I also know that if you are on this site in this category, you are most likely looking for a long term relationship...if you find the right person...not sure if I am the one...but I also know that you meet a lot of people in your life and even if you don't have a mad, passionate relationship with them, the experience of meeting people and spending time is rarely wasted. If you never meet up, you never know...
Most importantly, I like to enjoy life, and I laugh alot.....
hope you have a sense of humor and the "moxie" to make a move...LOL

First date??...who knows...depends on the time of day (coffee? anyone, dinner is better!!) or even the Moxie(there really is a movie theatre in Spgfd!!)... and the time of the year...a walk? cozy conversation??

Age between 50 and 75
Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex.
Must not do drugs
Must not be married
Must not smoke