I'll be honest. When I first signed up on this site it was to try something different. When it came to talking about myself, I didn't want to put the effort or time in to describe myself. (The worst thing is that I actually spent some time putting together a brief description only to end up deleting the entire thing, twice! What a motivator eh? On a positive note, its good practice and I guess you could say its continuous improvement!) After a while I thought about it though. If I am here to find either friends or potential a soulmate,
1. How is anyone going to get to know anything about me?
2. If I am not willing to put the time and effort into potentially attracting like minded people how can I expect to be successful in my attempt?

So enough said. I would start by describing myself as an outgoing person. I have spent much time over the years developing myself despite all the trials and tribulations life has cast at me. I could say that I have perservered and continued to remain steadfast. It has helped me to maintain my integrity as a man. My main focus right now is to develop a strategic plan in order to stabilize and build a solid foundation for my future. I would say that I have been successful thus far in life and career wise. I am a Mechanical Engineer and have spent the last 5 years developing my career. In the near future I plan to be either running a corporation or better yet my own buisness.

I have 3 beautiful children, 1 daugher and 2 boys whom I spend a lot of time with. My children have played an essential part in my self development and responsibilities. I am into a variety of music as my taste is quite broad. I pretty much enjoy everything, being it walking on the lakeside or chilling in a lounge, any kind of sports to video games, travelling or spontaneous road trips, hanging out with friends or meeting new people, chillin at home watching a movie or going out to dinner or it could be as simple as being at home and talking about each others goals and aspirations and how to possibly work together as a power couple to achieve a common goal. The list goes on, but I will leave the rest until we meet.

I particularly enjoy spending time with women even if its just talking about general issues that us men have! Its always intriguing to get a females perspective on things.

A first date could be anything. I find that everyone always does the same thing, dinner and a movie, or going out for drinks. While I very much enjoy doing these things, and they do provide a good venue for open communication, why not do something different and spontaneous? Lets be innovative and creative! I think that the initial interaction and synergy of the unique personalities will determine what we will do on the first date. So lets leave that to fate! I have some ideas! Hope you like suprises! How does that sound?