Hello, my name is Anita. I am 56 years young, mother of 4 grown children and grandmother of 7. I was born and raised in St Joseph, MO. I have pretty much always lived there. I was married at age 18 and for 36 years until his passing in May 2007.
I feel I am an easy to get along with woman, compassionate, understanding, loyal and honest. I am just me, plain and simple. I enjoy music: I listen to a wide variety of it, dancing, karaoke, fishing, cookouts, and a good cup of coffee and conversation. I love to laugh and make others laugh. I am a bit of a clown at times.
As for what I am looking for is someone that can share the same ideas and thoughts. Someone hopefully that will become my new life partner and I his. I understand that you first have to meet someone and compare your interests and see if there is that spark or connection. I am not looking for any one night stands or someone wanting to play games. Since I have been on here for about a year now, I get alot of guys way too young contacting me.... If you are under 40 years old, you are too young for me. Everyone has their preference in what the ideal mate for them is.... I prefer taller men 5'11" to 6'3" with an average body build. I am also partial to blue eyes...... although these things are definetly not a requirement. What is though, is that special feeling..... and I think we would both feel it if it happens.
More than likely, you will have to contact me.... I am not in the habit of being the one to approach the man first.
I am not very good at this dating thing, seems like I mess up alot. Please just don't play with my feelings and emotions. If we meet and you are interested and I feel the same, let me know and not play games.
Please do not ask me to add you to messenger unless you plan on chatting with me. I have had some ask for me to add them so they can chat and get to know me, but I add them and never hear anything from them...

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Turn ons: a nice smile..nice eyes...pleasant attitude...good sense of humor...cuddling...romance...thunderstorms...watching the snowfall...candlelight..music...lovemaking...smelling nice, well groomed

Turn offs: liars...cheaters...drunks or heavy drinkers...drug users...child molesters or sex offenders...thiefs...selfishness...vulgarity...control freaks...being mean, fighting...cruelty to women, children or animals... body odor...hairy backs (lol)

I think a first date or meeting should be kept simple; perhaps meeting over coffee, tea or a soda.... just to see if there is any connection and then we could have our first real date.


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My late husband, Roger A Paxson, Sr.
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