I know how the relationship works.
1.) Ladies if you want your man to be successful in life you must take this into account.
We start every morning thinking about having sex not a surprise right. So then in order to get our minds on making money fulfill that need to get our minds on making money doing something other than thinking about sex.
This is not meant to be derogatory in any way.It is fact I thought I should share.
Two we will love you more for it.
2.) Stroke our ego not only will it endear us to you it will build our confidence and make us want to do more for you.
3.) make everything in the home a group effort he will clean if you help with the man duties again the more stuff you do together the more you and he will learn example most men are not good cooks teach them most woman do not know what air intake is on a car. Trade this knowledge for the sake of building your relationship.
As for me I realized a long time ago you not only need to hear it you need to know that your man is there fore you buy action as well.
Todays man should cook clean and do laundry it is true. I do as much as I can to help when I can on what ever menial task I may be able to assist with.

Anything you want or I could surprise you