I am basically a big kid. By that I don't mean that I am irresponsible and don't pick up my dirty underwear off the floor but that I prefer to keep things fun and not take the disasters and speed bumps that life throws at you too seriously because with a little effort, most can be remedied or avoided. I am not the shirt and tie kind of guy who has to justify all of life's events by documenting them on a legal pad for approval. I am looking for someone who feels the same, not too uptight but mature enough to take the wheel when needed.

I have an 9 year old son who is my life. I cannot put him in a closet when it is convenient and that is why there are babysitters. I sewed my wild oats a long time ago but I still know how to have fun although I am more of the strong, silent type. I am honest, loyal, passionate and will be your friend for life if you want me to be. I am a bit old fashioned so don't get offended if I open the door for you at least until our third date and I always pick up the check.

Humor is a big part of my life and I am looking for someone who feels the same way. Plus, there has to be a connection. The physical attraction is what piques your curiosity but the personality is what keeps you coming back for more.

Definitely looking for something real. That may be a broad definition but somewhere out there I know there is a woman who knows what I mean. Looking for someone that has my back and I theirs. Throw in some romance, passion, caring, humor, adventure and a bit of mystery and I am set. I am looking for a friend, a partner and lover. I like the sound of children laughing; to hold hands while watching the sunset; soft, slow, passionate kisses; warm summer breezes and hugs. So lets cuddle on the couch on a snowy night by the fire and watch Rudolph The Red Nose Reindeer and wake up the next morning and fly to Hawaii for a two week vacation exploring the volcanoes and playing on the beach. And please have a picture.

Something simple so we can talk. Coffee or ice cream or maybe a slurpee and a moon pie?.